We created this memorial to celebrate the life of Nehme. Sharing your stories, memories and photos here will offer us great comfort. As we plan virtual and in person gatherings, we will share details with you on this site. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial to Nehme's life and we hope that... see moreWe created this memorial to celebrate the life of Nehme. Sharing your stories, memories and photos here will offer us great comfort. As we plan virtual and in person gatherings, we will share details with you on this site. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial to Nehme's life and we hope that you will visit often.
OBITUARY
"I cannot draw, nor sculpt, nor add.
My writing is common.
So I decided to make the course,
method and moments of my life
The work"By Nehme C. Ayoub,Date unknown
Estela AmadeoI was thinking of Nehme lately as I remembered it was July when he left us, but wasn't sure of the date. This morning I drove by a truck which had the word AYOUB in big letters on the side....... what were the odds??? I felt it was a sign so I checked... moreI was thinking of Nehme lately as I remembered it was July when he left us, but wasn't sure of the date. This morning I drove by a truck which had the word AYOUB in big letters on the side....... what were the odds??? I felt it was a sign so I checked online and was amazed to find out that actually today is his anniversary. I think Nehme sent this sign to let us know he's around, winking at us with his big smile, maybe even laughing at his own jokes as he used to........... I shared this with some of his friends and they found it comforting so I thought of posting it for everyone in this site. My thoughts are with him, his family and so many people who love him. less
July 18, 2022
Tania Ayoub
Hi Estela, Thank you for sharing these wonderful words.
It has been two years and the pain of losing my son only gets stronger. He was the sweetest son that a mother could ever have. Until we meet again , Rest In Peace ya habib albi.❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am fortunate to have nehme not only as an uncle, but also as my godfather. I feel sorry for my little brother lucas, who got the second pick, Nabil... still a solid second pick though.
After his passing, having nehme as a godfather has, in a way,... moreI am fortunate to have nehme not only as an uncle, but also as my godfather. I feel sorry for my little brother lucas, who got the second pick, Nabil... still a solid second pick though.
After his passing, having nehme as a godfather has, in a way, given me comfort. I like to think that he will be forever watching over me from the heavens.. guiding me through life, and chuckling at my mistakes.
Nehme has always had the utmost faith in my brother in I, always encouraging us to be the best we can be. He had more faith in me than I do, and as a result I feel a responsibility to be the best person I can be.. for him.
Everyone who is on this call will probably understand this as much as I do. Nehme lived his life to support others. That is where he finds joy and fullfilment. He is the most generous, wise, encouraging, and loving person. period.
Nehme would bankrupt himself in a second, just so I could have a chance to reach my dreams. I don't think I can say that about anyone else. I don't think anyone who doesn't know nehme could say that.
When times get tough, I will always try my best to keep my chin up, for nehme, my godfather, may he rest in peace. less
"i'm a damn good trader, give me benchmark and target, and i'll do better"
"I like this challenge. Please keep it up."
"That will be a flock of... more"At least we chose to be here."
"Enjoy it while you can."
"i'm a damn good trader, give me benchmark and target, and i'll do better"
"I like this challenge. Please keep it up."
"That will be a flock of black swans."
-The man who used to smoke by the revolving door of C building every day,
and who didn't like to use the fiber bowls to pack his lunch. Each time I saw a white china plate, together with silverware in the sink of 6th floor pantry, I knew Nehme ate at his desk again.
Angelique and I are old friends and colleagues of Nehme, having been introduced to him by mutual friends in the late 1990s. We hadn’t been in touch with him lately, which we deeply regret now. But we will always cherish the many good times, and the... moreAngelique and I are old friends and colleagues of Nehme, having been introduced to him by mutual friends in the late 1990s. We hadn’t been in touch with him lately, which we deeply regret now. But we will always cherish the many good times, and the common love of Porsches! Attached is an undated photo that typifies Nehme’s playfulness. We are so sorry to lose Nehme so soon, and our deepest condolences go to his family. less
My two boys with my two brothers during the Summer of 2017 in our family home in Redlands. Nehme’s favorite song at that time was “We the People” by A Tribe Called Quest. We listened to it all day long, over and over.
I was lucky to have known and be included among Nehme’s friends. Nehme was one of a kind – an incredible character, original thinker, and oh that sense of humor. Where do I start? All who knew Nehme will agree and smile. “To be yourself in... moreI was lucky to have known and be included among Nehme’s friends. Nehme was one of a kind – an incredible character, original thinker, and oh that sense of humor. Where do I start? All who knew Nehme will agree and smile. “To be yourself in world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment” – Ralph Waldo Emerson. Nehme definitely trailblazed his own path, and he did so with gusto. Rest in peace my friend, you will not be forgotten. less
I miss Nehme's witty smiley face. To someone who is seeking truth but not flattery, you are the friend, the partner, because you always speak to the point, sometimes with a touch of your symbolic sarcasm. You have a beautiful mind. You will always be in my memory.
It was ... Thanksgiving 2007, one of the Ayoub Holiday celebrations we were invited to, at their home in Redlands. Everyone was there, Camille, Leila, Tania, Nabil and Nehme.
Those afternoon dinner parties were always exquisite, Leila and Nabil cooked at... moreIt was ... Thanksgiving 2007, one of the Ayoub Holiday celebrations we were invited to, at their home in Redlands. Everyone was there, Camille, Leila, Tania, Nabil and Nehme.
Those afternoon dinner parties were always exquisite, Leila and Nabil cooked at least 4 courses and the table was filled with uncorked red wine bottles, ready to be poured. These events were all about conversation, family, Lebanese culture, successful 1st and 2nd generation immigrants, educated, hardworking and celebrating life in the USA, contributing to society, a story we were not unfamiliar with.
It was when Camille was still around, and we asked Nabil if it was ok to bring a camera and shoot some portraits. Most likely this was the first time we met Nehme. He was a kind, handsome, witty, educated man, a citizen of the world, one that added value to any social setting, to any conversation.
We continued to see Nehme through the years, locally during the Holidays and also in DC where he lived and worked.
His passing at 52 is a substantial loss not only to the Ayoub family but also to the social circle he built and enjoyed.
I was fortunate to meet Nehme at family gatherings when he visited in Redlands, California. Remembering the first time that we met, I thought, “Wow, too bad he does not live here…he would make a great new friend.” He was fun, intellectual and... moreI was fortunate to meet Nehme at family gatherings when he visited in Redlands, California. Remembering the first time that we met, I thought, “Wow, too bad he does not live here…he would make a great new friend.” He was fun, intellectual and kind, a rare mix that is difficult to find.
Helen Keller said, “What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” I believe that Nehme’s memory is a permanent part of all the people that loved him and through those memories he exists in joy and love forever. We are all sharing in sadness for Nehme and pray for the strength for those who knew and loved him. less
Working with Nehme is a privilege one must earn. His passion and dedication to the investment profession are rare. His visionary thinking and mastery implementation in areas such as portfolio management, technology, business development, have provided... moreWorking with Nehme is a privilege one must earn. His passion and dedication to the investment profession are rare. His visionary thinking and mastery implementation in areas such as portfolio management, technology, business development, have provided stable income to IBRD through various economic cycles, and tremendous support to the Bank’s mission and its financial sustainability. Nehme is a leader, never by authority, but with his excellence and integrity, he empowers and inspires others. He is exceptionally generous with his cares for everyone working with him. He is courageous, speaks truth to power, and never compromises values and beliefs. It’s impossible to describe everything he has given to the Bank Treasury, but his legacy, his characters and his contagious passion are remembered forever by many who is lucky to have the opportunity working with him. May him rest in peace and love. less
Nehme was a good friend and I was blessed to have known him and to have worked with him for many years. Even after I left the bank we stayed in touch. I have fond memories of our trip to Barbados together, as we were on an assignment to visit with the... moreNehme was a good friend and I was blessed to have known him and to have worked with him for many years. Even after I left the bank we stayed in touch. I have fond memories of our trip to Barbados together, as we were on an assignment to visit with the Caribbean Development Bank. Prior to our meeting we hung out on the beach preparing our presentations and chatting about everything under the sun. Then in the evenings we hung out with the locals. It was the best business trip and I am glad that I had the opportunity to share it with Nehme. He will be missed! less
Nehme, Viet-Nehme, Bala Khouf,
my dear brother (in-law),
You are a fearless, beautiful soul.
I am so grateful to have known you and have been a part of your loving family all these years.
Your wit, profound and expansive intelligence, boundless... moreNehme, Viet-Nehme, Bala Khouf,
my dear brother (in-law),
You are a fearless, beautiful soul.
I am so grateful to have known you and have been a part of your loving family all these years.
Your wit, profound and expansive intelligence, boundless generosity, deep curiosity and engagement, love for family, and commitment to bringing out the best in those you cared for, was...and will always be...an inspiration to all of us.
From the beginning of my relationship with Tania, your beautiful sister, you always welcomed me into your arms and encouraged us in our wild and impossible dreams...always with a generous portion of warm humor, and an unwavering belief in our potential to accomplish the extraordinary.
Throughout the many years, as our family grew, your wish for us and our two boys to live our best lives only grew stronger.
It was your greatest joy to speak to Joaquin and Lucas, your nephews, about their dreams and offer words of encouragement and support. You loved being their uncle, and the love and attention you offered them made me even more proud and grateful to have you as an exemplary positive source in our lives.
To say you will be deeply missed is so much an understatement.
You will always and forever be cherished as the unique and gifted soul you are. And Nehme, know that you will live on in the hopes and dreams and accomplishments of all of us.
My dear brother, we all love you so much, and we will focus on that now, as we so acutely feel the pain of your passing...too soon, and forever, as we call on your memory as inspiration for living a full and meaningful life.
Our communications were not frequent, but the ideas were rich, the memories poignant, and the future plans inspiring. Your loss saddens all who knew you, myself included. You will be missed, but your memory lives on. Rest in Peace Nehmeh.
Imad.
May your beautiful soul Rest In Peace cous!!! This is the last picture I had shared with you of my daughter’s painting a couple of weeks before your farewell, to which you replied... “ Waow. Quite a painter. Wishing you all the best.”.... Just wish... moreMay your beautiful soul Rest In Peace cous!!! This is the last picture I had shared with you of my daughter’s painting a couple of weeks before your farewell, to which you replied... “ Waow. Quite a painter. Wishing you all the best.”.... Just wish I could turn the clock back... Gone too soon cous!!! less
I am so proud that I had a chance to know and work with you Nehme. You were a fireworks of intelligence, humour and joy of life. Rest in peace beautiful soul.
Yemen, 2004. Nehme clearly spiced this RAMP mission up, and he could easily translate conversations between locals and ourselves. We are missing you...
Prof Nehme, you will be always remembered for your passionate and abundant love of life. You had the habit to never settle for mediocrity, for being average. You always pursued the highest standard and quality in life, in work, and in people. Thank you... moreProf Nehme, you will be always remembered for your passionate and abundant love of life. You had the habit to never settle for mediocrity, for being average. You always pursued the highest standard and quality in life, in work, and in people. Thank you for being with us and thank you for teaching us! You will be dearly missed! less
DC, November 1992. Nehme saying goodbye to Victor and I before our long drive to South America. Later on he met us in Santiago Chile and drove with us through Chile, Bolivia and Peru