Louise Voets

March 1, 2021

February 26, 2021

Rosemary Yates To Cian, family and friends of Louise,

I shared a good friendship with Louise, a sister of the heart. Her connection and respect of Spirit reflected in many ways, her love of Mother Earth was wholesome and true, her love of daughter was a story of true... more
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February 24, 2021

I feel like I only knew Lou a short time, but looking back, it turns out it's almost 14 years since we first crossed paths.

Cian and I were working together in a bar in 2007 when we met and became friends. One night soon after we were hanging out back... more

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February 24, 2021

Lou held a special nook in my heart. She was always there, overflowing with love, knowledge and generosity. I am proud to have known her for so many years and call her my friend.

The first time I met Lou, Cian and I were bonding over our love of the... moreLou held a special nook in my heart. She was always there, overflowing with love, knowledge and generosity. I am proud to have known her for so many years and call her my friend.

The first time I met Lou, Cian and I were bonding over our love of the best trashiest B Grade vampire romance, True Blood. She welcomed me into her home with a beautiful big smile, a warm hug and her two little dogs running between our legs. She offered me a glass of wine as we chattered on about life, crystals and got to know each other.

Lou was someone who was always easy to talk and relate to, she would speak of the spiritual world and how our paths were meant to meet, diverge and inevitably meet again. I remember all the times, she laughed at Cian and I surviving our adventures (or misadventures) but it was always in loving jest, knowing that we would always be okay in the end because we had each other.

The day Andy and Cian got married, I felt very privileged sitting next to Lou. I had the honour of holding Lou's hand, giving her cuddles whilst we witnessed her daughter marry the man she loved. Throughout the whole ceremony, she was unable to take her eyes off the two of the most important people in her life. I know she treasured this memory above many others. The picture below is of Lou, moments before the celebrant announced Andy and Cian as husband and wife.

The last time I saw Lou, she was still her vibrant self- ever beautiful and charming. Much like many of our memories, we sat together and enjoyed each other's company and food - a veggie omelette, brownies and wine. She spoke of her life, her family and how much she loved Cian and Andy. Because of Covid, we hadn't seen each other for many months. One of the last things she ever said to me was how I looked exactly as I did when she first met me all those years ago and how much she loved me. I will never forget that.

Lou will always be my other mother and so much love will always be reserved for her. She may not be with us in the physical world, but she is with us in our memories, in spirit and ever present as we make new ones. Love you Lou xoxo less

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February 20, 2021

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February 20, 2021

Here are some of my memories of the beautiful Lou.

I loved spending time with Cian and Lou as a kid. Lou was always very welcoming and always gave me a big hug, she made me feel at home whenever I visited.

I remember staying with Cian and Lou at... moreHere are some of my memories of the beautiful Lou.

I loved spending time with Cian and Lou as a kid. Lou was always very welcoming and always gave me a big hug, she made me feel at home whenever I visited.

I remember staying with Cian and Lou at their home in the bush, somewhere around Bellingen. Cian and I had a fabulous time sitting in the cool water of an outside bathtub and singing loudly. Lou would encourage our play, check if we wanted anything, and give us lots of time to hang out. Time never felt rushed.

Another time, a tiny firetail finch visited Cian and Lou’s garden and sat in the palm of Cian’s hand for a long while. Lou was very impressed and said that the finch was drawn to Cian. I think Lou’s love and appreciation of animals and nature reinforced to me how important these things are.

I remember Lou had a great old van, she had decorated the dashboard with all manner of crystals, feathers, rocks and dried flowers. I missed Cian so much when Cian and Lou moved away from Bellingen. I was excited when I knew they were coming to visit, I waited impatiently, hoping they would come around the corner. The sight of their van pulling up in our driveway made me super happy.

It was always an adventure visiting Cian and Lou on the community land near Kempsey. Mum and I would drive down, along dusty old roads. If I remember correctly, once our car either broke down, or maybe a causeway was flooded, preventing us from getting to their land. We had to park further away and walk in, reaching their land at dusk. We stayed in the teepee and Lou told us funny stories of marauding possums, Lady getting into mischief, and chickens escaping the chook yard. I was also fascinated by the idea of a spirit quest, which Lou explained. I thought she was very brave to spend a whole night alone in the bush in the darkness. I liked the idea of her finding the perfect spot, where the energy felt just right.

When I moved to Sydney, I hardly knew anyone. I can’t even tell you how much it meant to me to reconnect with Cian and Lou. A nice memory I have from the Glebe days is of Lou excitedly beckoning me to climb through the window onto the roof, to appreciate their new sitting spot, “Look how good this is!” she said. More recently in Canterbury, Lou showed me some feather decorations she had made. I was admiring them and she said, “Go on! Choose one you like. You can have one.” I have this in my lounge room, and it’s a lovely reminder of Lou. I loved seeing all her feathers and beautiful crystals and jewellery. I also have a nice memory of Lou in the garden, maybe about a year ago, she was showing us her plants and you could tell she was in her element.

It was so wonderful that Lou could attend Cian and Andy’s recommitment ceremony. I had a really sweet conversation with her there, in the afternoon sunshine. We talked about Cian and Andy, funny stories from when Cian and Andy first started dating, special spiritual moments for her and important things in life. I also absolutely loved her outfit, she rocked an amazing tie-dye cardigan and red dress. I hope I can look that cool when I get older!

Lou loved Cian with all her heart, she was always there for Cian, and Cian would do anything to help and support Lou. I think it’s pretty amazing that Lou fought cancer for 3 years, when the initial prognosis was saying only a fraction of that time. I think the love and care she got from Cian and Andy would have meant a huge amount to Lou. Lou was a strong, resilient, creative and warm person, and I was lucky to have known her. She will be sorely missed. less

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Andy Johnson Thanks for sharing those beautiful thoughts and memories Sash, Lou loved you very much just as we do.
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Grace Yuen Cian she is beautiful <3 and you can see so much her in you
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Grace Yuen Thank you for posting up all these amazing photos of your mum! It's a small glimpse into your mum's very full life of adventures! Also LOVE her hair <3
- February 24, 2021