We created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Robert Meyers. Collecting your stories and memories here will offer great comfort to Nan, Max, Jessica and Ben as well as to family and friends. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial in honor of the incredible life of Robert Meyers.
OBITUARY
"Don’t count the days; make the days count."
-Muhammad Ali
These thoughts are intended to memorialize a man we loved through our eyes and the eyes of his beloved Nan. When he talked about Nan his eyes would light up the entire room. She was his everything. Rob had a passion for all things sports. Below is a list of words we compiled that reminded us of Rob. Please feel free to add another one in your personal message.
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"Don’t count the days; make the days count."
-Muhammad Ali
These thoughts are intended to memorialize a man we loved through our eyes and the eyes of his beloved Nan. When he talked about Nan his eyes would light up the entire room. She was his everything. Rob had a passion for all things sports. Below is a list of words we compiled that reminded us of Rob. Please feel free to add another one in your personal message.
His Children!
“Hey Doll”
Sporting club
Love for fine clothing
Black Banana
Comedians
Marathon runner
Boxer
Sporting events…
EAGLES
Broadway shows
Cruises
Springsteen
Waterskiing
Vegas
Great friend
In order to know Rob you needed to know Nan. We found this post on Rob's favorites on his Facebook page. This is the women who stole his heart and became his world....and she adored him in return.
1. I am to honest 2. I have the most wonderful family in the world 3. I can't believe I am actually doing this..... 4. My kids drive me nuts and I spend way to much time with them but I wouldn't have it any other way. 5. I wish I felt good all the time, I hate being in pain 6. my husband truly is a good guy and I am very lucky to have him especially now that his new addiction is laundry. 7. I think my mom and rob are now tied for the best friend spot 8. I have such wonderful friends they are always there when truly needed. 9. I Hate my legs!!!!!! 10. I hate my hair!!! 11. I wish I could run 12. I wish I didn't get so tired 13. I hate complaining all the time 14. I see the good in everybody (well most people) 15. I see the glass as always being half full and not half empty 16. I now believe life is to short so enjoy everyday to its fullest..I believe this but wish that I could practice this philosophy 17. I love to sleep...shocking to those that know me well 18. I can't stand petty people 19. I want to really start writing again, I want to get a particular book published 20. I want my children to live long healthy lives and be safe each and every day 21. I hate diabetes and want a cure tomorrow 22. I like to eat to much...and don't like the ramifications 23. I really love going to the supermarket 24. I love watching Max play Ice hockey 25. I wish I had more self confidence!!!!!!
Dear Nan, Max, Jess, and Ben,
We are so sad about the loss of Rob.
From our first meeting in Israel in 2012, we have always thought of your family as our “twin” family, Philly version, with children the same ages. Despite the distance, we have felt... moreDear Nan, Max, Jess, and Ben,
We are so sad about the loss of Rob.
From our first meeting in Israel in 2012, we have always thought of your family as our “twin” family, Philly version, with children the same ages. Despite the distance, we have felt a closeness to you after spending two weeks together exploring Israel.
We remember Rob’s warmth, energy, kindness, and his smile. We remember how much he loved all of you and was so proud of you.
Please know we are thinking of you and send our heartfelt condolences.
Love,
Vicki, Mark, Audrey, Stephen, and Matthew less
Rarely do you get the chance in life to meet a person who is genuinely true to themselves. Rob Meyers was that person. He was unlike anybody else...one of a kind. Wickedly smart and witty, he enjoyed making people belly laugh. Straight to the point,... moreRarely do you get the chance in life to meet a person who is genuinely true to themselves. Rob Meyers was that person. He was unlike anybody else...one of a kind. Wickedly smart and witty, he enjoyed making people belly laugh. Straight to the point, Rob told you what you needed to hear, whether you asked for it or not. He had a heart of gold and he always meant the best. He wanted the best...for himself and for everyone he loved. And Rob loved big! You knew where you stood with him. Generous and dependable, he would drop everything to help someone.
I was lucky to have spent time with Rob 30+ years ago. It was special. I always knew that. My heart goes out to Nan, Max, Jessica and Ben. The devastation can only be relieved by the wonderful memories you must have.
Rest in Peace my dear friend. less
I only spoke with Mr. Meyers on two occasions, but as you all know, he left quite a strong impression. As a college teammate of Max, the Meyers family invited us into their home for a team dinner before a tournament we had in the area several years ago.... moreI only spoke with Mr. Meyers on two occasions, but as you all know, he left quite a strong impression. As a college teammate of Max, the Meyers family invited us into their home for a team dinner before a tournament we had in the area several years ago. Their hospitality was unforgettable, as Mr. Meyers was joking around with us all during dinner and cherished the opportunity to show us all of his sports memorabilia. During dinner, I had quickly mentioned that I had never tried matzah before and sure enough, he made sure that I didn't leave their home without that changing. I have never forgotten that night, and I will never forget the kindness that Mr. Meyers showed me during our encounters.
My deepest condolences go to Mrs. Meyers, Max, Jessica, and Ben. He will surely be missed, but he will always be with you. less
Hi all, I wrote a piece about Rob on fb, but couldn't transfer it to here... Feel free to read it... It's also on Sandy's fb post about this link... Thanks... Mike Halpern...
Nan-I was so sorry to hear about Rob. My heart is hurting for you and your family. I met Rob when we were in our teens, and I will always remember him as a friendly, warm, funny guy. You can tell he had so much love for you and your kids. He will... moreNan-I was so sorry to hear about Rob. My heart is hurting for you and your family. I met Rob when we were in our teens, and I will always remember him as a friendly, warm, funny guy. You can tell he had so much love for you and your kids. He will forever be with you. Sending love and healing prayers. Gail less
Nan, words can’t describe how sorry I am for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I think of you often and send my deepest condolences.
Nan, my heart goes out to you and your family. I have really enjoyed getting to know Rob over the past few years. I know he is much loved and will be missed by many. Love and prayers, Connie
Nan and Family, Our deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Heather and Rich/// Ben, we are very sorry for the loss of your dad. Justin and Andrew
I’ll always remember the fun times we had going to the Casinos back in the 80’s, the fun summers in Longport since college . I will miss seeing you at the Longport July 4th Jewish mile run. Rob always made me smile and had kind words to say. I loved... moreI’ll always remember the fun times we had going to the Casinos back in the 80’s, the fun summers in Longport since college . I will miss seeing you at the Longport July 4th Jewish mile run. Rob always made me smile and had kind words to say. I loved bumping into him in random places . You were such a great friend and we (Dave and I ) will never forget you! Robby Dough boy .. less
More than anything, what I will remember about Rob is how much he LOVED Nan and his family. And I will eternally feel the warmth of his beautiful spirit, epic swagger and Philly proud spunk when I think of him.
Sending everyone who knew Rob lots of... moreMore than anything, what I will remember about Rob is how much he LOVED Nan and his family. And I will eternally feel the warmth of his beautiful spirit, epic swagger and Philly proud spunk when I think of him.
Sending everyone who knew Rob lots of love and light. You are in my thoughts and prayers. less
Nan, there are no words that can adequately express how shocked and saddened I was to hear of Rob's passing. Though I can't say that David and I knew Rob well, every time we saw you guys, he was so friendly and always had a smile on his face. I see... moreNan, there are no words that can adequately express how shocked and saddened I was to hear of Rob's passing. Though I can't say that David and I knew Rob well, every time we saw you guys, he was so friendly and always had a smile on his face. I see from all the posts how evident it was that he was so proud to call you his wife and how excited your family made him. He was always sharing a great event that you or the kids attended with him.
A story you may not know, years ago I purchased tickets to a concert through Rob's online site. I went to his office to pick them up. I walked in and he greeted me with a questioning look. You see, I had not reached out to him directly for the tickets and he thought I was nuts! He expressly told me never to do that again because he would have gotten me a better deal. I thought that was just so kind and generous of him.
I certainly know what it feels like to suddenly lose a father at a young age. I hope you can take comfort in knowing that after my father's sudden passing while I was in high school, my entire family survived and thrived. My mother, brothers and I have all gone on with our lives, though we never forget my father who I carry with me always. Look for a cardinal to visit! I truly believe they represent loved ones who passed coming to say hello.
If you or the kids need anything, I hope you know you can reach out - even if it is just to chat about shared experiences.
I will continue to hold your family and my thoughts and prayers and may Rob's memory be for a blessing. less
Rob Meyers on the outside a little bit of flash, always perfectly dressed with no hair out of place, always striving to be his best, always pushing himself physically, fitness was very important to him. Regimented, structured, disciplined, everything has... moreRob Meyers on the outside a little bit of flash, always perfectly dressed with no hair out of place, always striving to be his best, always pushing himself physically, fitness was very important to him. Regimented, structured, disciplined, everything has a place and don't you dare mess with it's place. Biggest yenta I know, I've never had a conversation with Nan without his wanting to hear every word and weighing in on every subject. These things most might have known or guessed, but there is so much more.
Rob was a deeply proud man, a grateful man, not one to necessarily show vulnerability , but will always say it the way it is and a deeply sensitive man when you know him. I will never forget when his father died, I have no recollection of why, but I didn't go to the funeral? 2 weeks later the house phone rings (those were a thing once). "hey doll Rob here, I just have to tell you that I was disappointed that you weren't at my Dad's funeral, you were wrong, you should have been there". I was shocked and ashamed and had no response other than I am so sorry. He said, "it's ok, I just wanted you to know how I felt". Wow, it stayed with me always and it also let me know that I mattered to him. He never brought it up again.
Fast forward to 2001 and my husband Robert (Nan's Rob was Rob, and mine was Robert) was diagnosed with a brain aneurism and needed brain surgery. It was scheduled for the next morning so I called "my girls" (the posse) to let them know, and although they all asked, I told them that Robert absolutely did not want anyone coming to the hospital that night. 1 person did not listen, you guessed it Rob Meyers. He told us he heard the orders, but simply couldn't let him be alone the night before something so scary. When a nurse told him he had to leave, he told her, he's my brother I'm staying. I was a bit annoyed he didn't listen and also so touched and so grateful. When he and I discussed it after the fact, he said not going was not an option for him. Honestly they were not lifelong friends at that point, the relationship was mostly based on my friendship with Nan. Well, not after that it wasn't. These are moments that tell you everything you ever needed to know about a man and something neither Robert or I will every forget.
Fast forward again, and now it's Nan with a health issue... a stroke and she had a long road of recovery ahead. Because our children were in school together and friends I was able to help out after school and bring the kids back after dinner most nights. I was never allowed to visit with my Nan, but did get to spend that time of drop off talking to Rob. That is when I witnessed the full scope of his love for Nan. He dropped all pretense of being ok, he was lost without her and admitted he could not imagine his life without her and she simply had to get better (which she did). As terrified as I was for my friend, I fell a bit in love with how he loved her. It was one of the most beautiful things I have ever witnessed.
Rob had many health scares (Nan always joked he has 9 lives), but he never ever let it stop him from pushing himself and truly living. 3 days after a particularly bad scare and just out of the hospital he decided to join Nan and Ben visiting our new home on the Bay at the shore. See, Rob also couldn't stand to miss a thing (the acronym FOMO was made for Rob). We went out on the boat to give Ben the chance to learn to wakeboard. Ben by the way is a chip off the old (sorry Rob, Young) block. he would not give up no matter how exhausted, he had to get up on the wakeboard and of course he did. All of the sudden Rob insists he gives it a try even though he's just out of the hospital and we don't have a wakeboard to fit his 6ft 1" frame (do not forget that extra inch by the way). After a big struggle and a lot of dish soap he gets his size 11 feet into the size 8 bindings and of course, he's up within just a few attempts. He gets back in the boat winks at me, and say's I had to do it. He wanted his son to see that fighting spirit, it was a teaching moment for him that every instinct in his body told him was worth the risk. The lesson was you don't ever let a little thing like just getting out of ICU stop you. I think he also wanted to show off a little to his Nan, and she was impressed, and let's not forget the photo op, because lets face it if it's not on facebook did it even really happen?
Yes, we've been through a lot as a group, some day you will get to read all about it in our upcoming book "the posse chronicles".
Nothing prepared us for losing one our own. Nothing prepared us for the feelings of loss, or helplessness in how to take this pain away for Nan, Max, Jessica, and Ben. It kills me because I know Rob wouldn't hesitate to call me up (now on a cell phone) and say, "hey doll, I'm counting on you, make sure they are ok, do right by them doll, do it for me doll, oh and make sure you make a long post on facebook, and put lots of pictures up, and make sure I look good, no bad pictures doll, you know what I'd like. Doll, did you post it yet, what are you waiting for doll?"
Rob, you are one in a million, a heart of gold, I'm blessed to have been a part of your world and I promise you... your Nan and your beautiful children will never feel alone as long as I'm alive. less
When I think of Rob, I think of how much he loved Nan. He always seemed so happy and proud to be in her company. I also think about his love for his children and the true interest in and kindness towards their friends. My children were lucky enough to... moreWhen I think of Rob, I think of how much he loved Nan. He always seemed so happy and proud to be in her company. I also think about his love for his children and the true interest in and kindness towards their friends. My children were lucky enough to experience his attention and genuine conversations. My family and I are sending love and comfort to Nan, Max, Jess and Ben. less
Rob was always a perfect gentleman and I never saw him without a huge smile on his face. He was always engaged in any conversation we had and genuinely interested on how I was doing and my children – knew them each by name. Nan, we will forever be... moreRob was always a perfect gentleman and I never saw him without a huge smile on his face. He was always engaged in any conversation we had and genuinely interested on how I was doing and my children – knew them each by name. Nan, we will forever be there by your side and keep Rob’s memory alive and make you laugh the way he made us laugh. Your beautiful children will be your guiding light as you see your wonderful loving Rob shine within each of them. less
So many great memories of Rob. Rob dressed so sharply, and at the same time put on no "airs" at all. Always, with no exceptions, Rob was genuine, modest, wishing the best for others, and full of love for his family. Qualities to admire. A... moreSo many great memories of Rob. Rob dressed so sharply, and at the same time put on no "airs" at all. Always, with no exceptions, Rob was genuine, modest, wishing the best for others, and full of love for his family. Qualities to admire. A great guy. I miss him, and my heart goes out to you, Nan, Max, Jessica and Ben. less
Rob was real. There was no façade. He gave it to you straight and unvarnished. In good times I could always count on Rob to make me smile. His quick wit often made me belly laugh… but he also had the right words of encouragement to help me get... moreRob was real. There was no façade. He gave it to you straight and unvarnished. In good times I could always count on Rob to make me smile. His quick wit often made me belly laugh… but he also had the right words of encouragement to help me get through the tough times too.
Rob and I shared a common need to stock pile items most people don’t think twice about, like toilet paper, paper towels, laundry detergent, etc. I think Rob and I were ahead of our time.
Rob’s love for Nan, Max, Jessica and Ben were immeasurable. His love and adoration for Nan started the moment he laid eyes on her. The way he looked at and admired Nan was what I loved most… Why, because Nan is one of my favorite people of all time, and she deserved that love.
Rob, you will always be in our hearts. A cherished member of the big family that we all created together. That will go on, but will never be the same without you.
Nan, Max, Jessica and Ben may Rob's love always be with you. And know you have our love surrounding you always. less
Rob came into my life through his beautiful wife my dear friend Nan. We shared many birthdays, camp visiting days, summer beach days, Bnai Mitzvahs, births, hospital stays and more over the last 25 plus years but most importantly we shared our mutual... moreRob came into my life through his beautiful wife my dear friend Nan. We shared many birthdays, camp visiting days, summer beach days, Bnai Mitzvahs, births, hospital stays and more over the last 25 plus years but most importantly we shared our mutual love for his children who he graciously aloud me to consider mine. Rob, Max, Jessica, Ben and Nan will always be apart of my family and taken care as you would have. less
There is nothing like old friends, the warmth that you feel when your with them floods your mind with wonderful memories of years past. As Robin so eloquently put it, “Hey Doll” will forever be one of those memories. My heart breaks for Nan, Max,... moreThere is nothing like old friends, the warmth that you feel when your with them floods your mind with wonderful memories of years past. As Robin so eloquently put it, “Hey Doll” will forever be one of those memories. My heart breaks for Nan, Max, Jessica and Ben. May the memories of your incredible father and husband live within you forever. Thinking of you all and sending love and prayer. less
My heart is broken and although I struggle to find the words, I want to share how much Rob lived his life with joy and passion. I remember the night Nan met Rob and when she told me she was going to get ride home with him, I said "Not Rob... moreMy heart is broken and although I struggle to find the words, I want to share how much Rob lived his life with joy and passion. I remember the night Nan met Rob and when she told me she was going to get ride home with him, I said "Not Rob Meyers!" Boy did they prove me wrong. Their love for each was clear from the start and I have had the pleasure of watching their beautiful family grow. Rob was such an amazing father and husband. He loved his Nan with all his heart and was so proud of his kids. He was always there to give you a compliment, share his support and opinion of any new endeavor and was quick to greet you with his familiar "Hey Doll!"
Nan has been my family since I was 7 years old. I lost one of my own yesterday. The world was blessed with his unique and vivacious presence. It was a gift to know him and I will forever miss his smile and sense of humor. To Max, Jessica and Ben. Your father touched the hearts of so many and they will always live on in you. How lucky are we. less
Watched them fall in love, get married and while I wasn’t there when they started their family, I came back into their lives and it was like I never left. Max is like a son to me, and my heart is just broken. Rob was one of the nicest guys around and... moreWatched them fall in love, get married and while I wasn’t there when they started their family, I came back into their lives and it was like I never left. Max is like a son to me, and my heart is just broken. Rob was one of the nicest guys around and he always made it a point to get us all together when they came to Florida.
I will miss him terribly and only wish I could be there to put my arms around this family.
I love you Nanelle less
I’ve known Rob practically all my life but it wasn’t until this beauty (Jessica) was born did we truly spend time together. We cannot accurately express our sincerest sympathy to Nan, Jessica, Max, and the entire Meyer’s & Ball Family, but we can... moreI’ve known Rob practically all my life but it wasn’t until this beauty (Jessica) was born did we truly spend time together. We cannot accurately express our sincerest sympathy to Nan, Jessica, Max, and the entire Meyer’s & Ball Family, but we can say the world was a better place with Rob in it and we are fortunate to have known him and his legacy will continue with his beautiful family. May Rob’s memory always be a blessing. (Oldie but good pictures are the best) Nina, David, Sarah & Melissa Greberman less