On Monday June 29th 2020, Dr. Fadekemi Oyewusi transitioned to glory. Fadekemi, also fondly called “Kemi”, was an inspiration and role model to her students, colleagues and all that had the opportunity to cross her path during her sojourn on this part of the divide.
Fadekemi Oyewusi was a dedicated... see moreOn Monday June 29th 2020, Dr. Fadekemi Oyewusi transitioned to glory. Fadekemi, also fondly called “Kemi”, was an inspiration and role model to her students, colleagues and all that had the opportunity to cross her path during her sojourn on this part of the divide.
Fadekemi Oyewusi was a dedicated and hardworking academic with outstanding reputation. A great woman of faith with a large heart, always willing to lend a helping hand. She was an icon with a golden heart. Fadekemi lost her husband Pastor Adewumi Oyewusi in 2017 and is survived by young Jemimah.
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OBITUARY
BIOGRAPHY OF DR. FADEKEMI OYEWUSI
Dr. Fadekemi Oyewusi was born in Ibadan, Oyo State Nigeria to the family of Mr. and Mrs. J.A Sangowusi.
Fadekemi was raised in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital, Nigeria. She attended Abadina College, University of Ibadan, Ibadan Oyo State for her secondary education after which she gained admission into the University of Ibadan to study Special Education at the University’s Faculty of Education.... see moreBIOGRAPHY OF DR. FADEKEMI OYEWUSI
Dr. Fadekemi Oyewusi was born in Ibadan, Oyo State Nigeria to the family of Mr. and Mrs. J.A Sangowusi.
Fadekemi was raised in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital, Nigeria. She attended Abadina College, University of Ibadan, Ibadan Oyo State for her secondary education after which she gained admission into the University of Ibadan to study Special Education at the University’s Faculty of Education. She graduated from the University with a Bachelor of Education degree {B.Ed. (Hons)}.
Upon graduation from the University, Fadekemi served her Country under the compulsory National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) scheme in Funtua, Katsina State. In 2008, she obtained a Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) from the University of Ibadan. Ibadan, Oyo State.
She started her professional duties as Librarian II in Ladoke Akintola University of Technology, (LAUTECH) Ogbomoso.
Fadekemi relocated from Ogbomosho to take up an appointment as a Senior Research Fellow at the Centre for Educational Media Resource Studies, University of Ibadan.
She was an Associate Lecturer in the Department of Library, Archival and Information Studies University of Ibadan where she taught different postgraduate courses to masters and doctoral students. Fadekemi has supervised over thirty postgraduate students at masters and doctoral levels..
Fadekemi has many publications as chapters in books, conference proceedings and learned journals in Nigeria and international outlets. Her research focus was on Information Management, School librarianship with emphasis on: knowledge and skills of librarians. Focussing on school library environment and learning resources, reading cultures of children and Bibliotherapy.
Fadekemi attended many local and international conferences on school librarianship where she presented papers. She presented a Faculty lecture titled ‘New Wine in an Old Wine skin: The Trajectory of School Libraries in Nigeria’ on 11 July, 2018 at the Faculty of Education, University of Ibadan, Ibadan.
Until her passing on into glory, Fadekemi was carrying on research on the following “Library Use and Reading Habits as Predictors of Information Literacy Competencies”, “Media preference as a factor influencing use of health information among young adults”, “Instructional media adoption as prediction of teaching effectiveness among lecturers”.
Fadekemi was a member of the following professional associations: Nigerian Library Association (NLA), Nigerian School Library Association (NSLA), International Association of School Librarianship (IASL), Reading Association of Nigeria (RAN), International Literacy Association (ILA) and International Federation of Library Associations (IFLA).
She served as a member of the Executive of the Nigerian Library Association (Oyo State Chapter) in different positions and was the University Representative from 1996 to 1998. Fadekemi was the Assistant Treasurer from 1998 to 2000 and second Vice Chairman from 2003 to 2006.
Fadekemi was the Treasurer of the Nigerian School Library Association in 2012. She was a representative of International. Association of School Librarianship (IASL) and was given the award of the Librarian of the year in October 2018 by IASL.
She held different administrative positions in the University of Ibadan which included:
Acting Director, Centre for Educational Media Resource Studies from February 2012 to July 2016;
Senate Representative, Kenneth Dike Library Appointment and Promotion Panel from October 2013 to July 2015.
She was a Member of Senate from February 2012 to July 31 2016 and also a member of the UI community Television Establishment committee from January to April 2017.
Fadekemi was part of the Committee on the production of University of Ibadan research strength profile in June 2017 and Ceremonials Committee in 2016.
As the Acting Director of the Centre for Educational Media Resource Studies, Fadekemi coordinated readership and library use promotion campaigns such as International School Library month, World Book day, Story hour, Reading culture seminar among others.
Fadekemi was involved in outreach programmes such as visiting schools and sensitising them on the importance of books and reading and celebrating World Book Day. She was passionate about children, their literacies and reading. Her normal slogan was “Wealth is in Reading” and she was involved in making this a reality in different programmes that she was opportuned to be involved in.
Fadekemi was a Visiting Scholar at the Department of Interdisciplinary Research (Library Science Program), College of Education, East Carolina University, Greenville, North Carolina, United States of America from August 2018 until she passed on.
She was engaged in teaching Research Methods on the Master in Library Science (MLS) program and carrying out research. She was involved in different outreach programs visiting schools to share her love of reading in North Pitt High School. She had a presentation to 3rd grade students at The Oakwood School on ‘Why they love the library?’
Fadekemi was married to the Late Pastor Adewumi Oyewusi. Their union is blessed with a beautiful daughter; Jemimah. Her husband transitioned into glory in September, 2017.
Her Hobbies were Reading, Singing and Travelling.
Fadekemi transitioned into glory on the Monday, the 29th of June, 2020 due to natural causes. She is survived by an aged mother, a daughter (Jemimah), sisters, brothers, in-laws, uncles, aunties and cousins.
Autobiography of Dr. Fadekemi Oyewusi
Below is an excerpt culled from her story shared in 2018 on BE INSPIRED SERIES. Culled from the facebook page of Toyin Olukoju Omozuwa.
I am Dr. Fadekemi Oyewusi, an associate professor at Centre for Educational Media Resource Studies, University of Ibadan, Oyo State, Nigeria. I had my Master's and Doctoral Degrees from Department of Library, Archival and Information Studies, University of Ibadan, Nigeria.
My research interest includes Information Management, School Librarianship and Bibliotherapy. I love working with children and young adults especially encouraging them to read and use the library.
Got born again at 16 years by the grace of God. Married to a good loving husband who was a pastor at the Redeemed Christian Church of God. He transitioned to be with the Lord on 26th September, 2017.
I am also aan ordained minister of God at RCCG.
I grew up in a loving environment with principled parents who would not waste time to spank us when we erred. The University of Ibadan abode we lived in provided the right environment to be motivated academically as well as easy access to books and comics. We bought books at the Staff Club and from vendors in front of the university gate in the 80s.
These books came as gifts from my father as rewards for success after every examination. My mother used to buy books for me on motor cycling, racing, and comics to improve my use of the English Language. The memories while growing up are one of my cherished assets and everyone around me hears these stories.
My love for reading inspired me to study Library Science at the master’s level in the University. I felt I would be able to read all the books in the Library without restraints from anyone.
The reading culture in Nigeria is gradually improving because people now read online. You see people trying to read information from social media, which is a good step towards reading. But the question is: What are people reading? Reading books especially for pleasure is poor and there are several factors responsible for this. For example, the cost of good novels is still expensive for the common man who has not been paid salary for several months. They can barely buy textbooks for their children and we are talking about reading for pleasure. In addition, the public libraries that are to provide access to information are not in existence or poorly funded, so you find old books.
Parents have a role to play in encouraging and promoting a reading culture in children.
To encourage this reading culture in children, parents need to read themselves. We need leaders who will also read so as not to make the mistake their predecessors made. Parents need to decrease the "owanbe" clothes bought yearly and buy more books for their children, Books can be donated to schools and given as birthday presents or Christmas gifts to other people or adults. I give book gifts to “whoever” is celebrating “whatever”.
Bibliotherapy, which is one of my research interests is employed in libraries with the intention to control the behaviour of young people positively. It is also known as reading therapy, book therapy or use of books for healing.
When I was the Acting Director of Centre for Educational Media Resource Studies (CEMRS), University of Ibadan, between 2012 and 2016, I introduced many innovative ideas to the Centre e.g. Makerspace. I was able, by the Grace of God, to get a new building for the centre.
I do not joke with anything that has to do with books and reading, hence my drive towards hosting many programmes related to reading. We hosted Prof Wole Soyinka once in 2014.
By God’s grace, I also coordinated the celebration of annual World Book Day and International School Library Month celebrations with school librarians throughout Nigeria.
We all go through divers challenges, pains, trauma, etc. My husband’s transition to glory on September 26, 2017 is the most traumatic event I ever experienced. We talked few minutes before he suddenly passed on. So, it was hard for me to believe. Then, accusations of different types (the African society syndrome in this kind of situation) were also traumatic.
Trusting in the Lord alone has been my watchword. The song “In Christ Alone” made more meaning. I had good support system among my family members and friends. I also met some young widows (about 10), during this period and was able to draw some strength from their support. I decided to take them out to Lunch after 7 months of heart to heart discussions. It was at that point I knew young widows have no support in Nigeria. There are many things they pass through and can’t share because people can’t understand, except one who has been there. So, I decided to form a group for the sisters where we discuss. Thank God, they are doing well and moving forward. This gives me Joy. It takes the grace of God to move forward after the loss of a loved one, especially one's spouse. The African society does not expect you to be happy as a widow. But looking unto Jesus, the Author and the Finisher of our faith makes the difference.
I hope to have an NGO for widows, especially the young ones in future.
On a final note, I will leave you with these words, trust in God alone. and be diligent in everything you do.
Written by Dr Fadekemi Oyewusi
Sister Fadekemi we met at Redeemed Christian Church of God Jesus chancery, Ibadan, my son and your daughter were both in the same sunday school class, I met you and your husband at the time and we chat once in a while in church but you are always... moreSister Fadekemi we met at Redeemed Christian Church of God Jesus chancery, Ibadan, my son and your daughter were both in the same sunday school class, I met you and your husband at the time and we chat once in a while in church but you are always smiling, I was endeared to you by your calmness, its sad that you had to exit the stage now, we love you but God loves you best. Adieu sister Fadekemi. Rest on in the bossom of your Lord and saviour Jesus Christ. less
A shock to hear about your passing on Fadeke. I bless God for your short but impactful life. You reached out to me after thirty something years we left secondary school. You were an encourager. I pray for comfort for your daughter, mummy and siblings.... moreA shock to hear about your passing on Fadeke. I bless God for your short but impactful life. You reached out to me after thirty something years we left secondary school. You were an encourager. I pray for comfort for your daughter, mummy and siblings. RIP Fadeke. Much love. less
Knowing you since 1990 in the fellowship of Student Christian Movement , University of Ibadan (SCM UI) has brought lasting memories.
Thank God, I recently had the opportunity to share with you an old picture we took together in University of Ibadan... moreKnowing you since 1990 in the fellowship of Student Christian Movement , University of Ibadan (SCM UI) has brought lasting memories.
Thank God, I recently had the opportunity to share with you an old picture we took together in University of Ibadan after an event in the fellowship. You were so delighted, stating you did not have a copy.
Though you were gone too soon but you left footprint on the sand of time.
SCM UI ALUMNI fellowship will miss you greatly.
We pray that the Lord will continually comfort Jemimah, your immediate family, friends and entire body of Christ. Rest on our beloved.
Ruth Opeyemi & Lekan Oyewande less
My beloved friend & sister from another mother,words cannot express the pain & sorrow i feel by your passing,iv asked God time & time again why, but He knows better.We me 37years ago as undergraduate in the university o
Fadekemi was special. I knew her from Undergraduate days, but got closer just before and after her husband passed. She had a sweet spirit and a great big smile for everyone. A hard working, passionate and excellent lecturer, academician and... moreFadekemi was special. I knew her from Undergraduate days, but got closer just before and after her husband passed. She had a sweet spirit and a great big smile for everyone. A hard working, passionate and excellent lecturer, academician and administrator. Bubbly and a fiercely loyal and trusted friend. The Lord shall grant her nearest and dearest deep comfort, preserve and prosper all that she left behind, especially Jemimah. May her soul rest in peace. less
.I loved you somuch and missed you more each passing day but your word kept ringing in my hears"BANKE,ME I DONT WANT TO GO TO HELL OH,LETS DO WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS"I I believe God to have taken you up to Heaven because you fought hard to make it... more.I loved you somuch and missed you more each passing day but your word kept ringing in my hears"BANKE,ME I DONT WANT TO GO TO HELL OH,LETS DO WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS"I I believe God to have taken you up to Heaven because you fought hard to make it and to make sure we keep in faith too.
I t all started at At Ladoke Akintola Uqniversity of Technology Ogbomosho in 1997 when I gained admission and then I attended RCCG Fire Brand church,Taki where I met sister fadekemi,she made me a member of drama group and later Choreography group after which she became my mentor and she constantly monitored my spiritual life to be sure I'm still in faith.I will not forget our sister moments together at you place,we laughed,we hosted,we pray and shared heart to heart talk and experiences.Sometimes we switch roles,where we became the adviser and you just listened to our advise.Other times we just eat I miss you somuch it hurts .Sis Fadekemi Adewusi nee Shagowusi continue to rest on in the bossom of our Lord Jesus less
The most painful goodbyes are that ones that are never said and never explained. Your death came to me as a rude shock. You gave me your shoulders to fly on. How can I ever forget a mentor, a woman of great vision for school librarianship with academic... moreThe most painful goodbyes are that ones that are never said and never explained. Your death came to me as a rude shock. You gave me your shoulders to fly on. How can I ever forget a mentor, a woman of great vision for school librarianship with academic integrity. Your legacies and contributions live on. Rest well my darling less
Mummie Fadeke,(as we would call you as kids), you were family to us.Present at almost all our school graduations, always present for all our birthdays and always showing support.You were a motivation through your advice, lifestyle &your achievements.... moreMummie Fadeke,(as we would call you as kids), you were family to us.Present at almost all our school graduations, always present for all our birthdays and always showing support.You were a motivation through your advice, lifestyle &your achievements. Honestly, you were like a second mom to us.Your home was home to us.You were the type of adult we could easily and comfortably relate with.It's hard to believe but it's consoling to know that you were firm in Christ and definitely are resting in His bosom. We'll forever miss you.
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Fadekemi, a Sister and a Friend
I am grateful to God for bringing her to my life. She was very kind and accommodating. Her friendship infused strength, assurance and much joy and I was able to pull through. My friends, sisters and acquittance became her... moreFadekemi, a Sister and a Friend
I am grateful to God for bringing her to my life. She was very kind and accommodating. Her friendship infused strength, assurance and much joy and I was able to pull through. My friends, sisters and acquittance became her friends even till her demise. They all have memories of her and testimonies of what God used her to do in their lives. I take comfort in the fact that she knew God and had accepted Jesus as her Saviour and Lord. So there is hope of Eternal life. I am glad that our paths crossed in life and will cherish the memories we shared together. Adieu Sister! less
Sister Fadeke, I met you about two and a half decades ago through your look alike sister who is my bestie and from the first meeting, you accepted me like a younger brother .
Whenever I come visiting, you were always accommodating and warm. I never saw... moreSister Fadeke, I met you about two and a half decades ago through your look alike sister who is my bestie and from the first meeting, you accepted me like a younger brother .
Whenever I come visiting, you were always accommodating and warm. I never saw you angry or even shout at anyone.
I remember when I came to deliver a message to you @ U.I in 2016 and you offered me Money and I wanted to decline, I remember clearly your words " you still remain that little Olumide I met many years ago" . You made sure I collected that money. I think our last meeting was when I brought my children to your house and we all ate lunch together.
I just don't know what else to say other than wish....
Wish it never happened
Wish I had been able to reciprocate a fraction of the love you showed me over the years.
Wish I didn't have to write this.
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She loved God.
She loved people of God.
She loved service of God.
A drama minister.
Peaceful and always calm even in the face of adversity and pain she still sing her song.
In Christ Alone,my hope is .........
Rest on Deaconess Fadeke .
God helped you... moreShe loved God.
She loved people of God.
She loved service of God.
A drama minister.
Peaceful and always calm even in the face of adversity and pain she still sing her song.
In Christ Alone,my hope is .........
Rest on Deaconess Fadeke .
God helped you to coordinate drama unit in RCCG Firebrand,Ogbomoso and each of the ministration was always a moment of blessing and turn around.
So painful of your home call.
You have fought a good fight, you have kept the faith, crown of righteousness await you.
Your death preach a sermon to all believers.
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Aunty Fade, I never saw you angry or sad. You were always cheerful and encouraging. Thank you very much for the support you gave we SCM LAUTECH members. You made library access easier. You stood for us. May God preserve and protect your legacies.. Sleep well ma
*TRIBUTE FROM STUDENT CHRISTIAN MOVEMENT (SCM) LAUTECH ALUMNI*
🙌🏽 *FAREWELL*🙌🏽
DR FADEKEMI OYEWUSI
(Nee Sangowusi)
_Transited to glory on 29th June after a brief illness😞_
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*Dr Fadekemi*, was an active SCMer in... more*TRIBUTE FROM STUDENT CHRISTIAN MOVEMENT (SCM) LAUTECH ALUMNI*
🙌🏽 *FAREWELL*🙌🏽
DR FADEKEMI OYEWUSI
(Nee Sangowusi)
_Transited to glory on 29th June after a brief illness😞_
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*Dr Fadekemi*, was an active SCMer in UI (Ibadan) who served to stabilise the growth of SCM LAUTECH as a SeF.
▶️ *Role In SCM Lautech*
She was Choice Chairperson for our fellowship a few times, She participated in some induction programmes in d early days of SCM Lautech fellowship.
She was also a regular speaker in our meetings.
*Aunty Fade*, as was fondly called by most SCMers took SCMers in Lautech like siblings. She would rise up to help any SCMer in need. She defended, Stood up for SCMers in Lautech.
She helped us navigate some hurdles of accessing the school library.
Her office was always filled with SCMers who came for counseling or other assistance.
She looked so strong, assuring, very supportive and always cheerful.
Never a dull moment with her..
You would even wonder if she ever gets angry..
Her good dress sense and elegant walking style was reminiscent of a Virtuous woman.
▶️ *Career*
She worked passionately in the school Library. She also taught some courses. She later on became a successful Library Management Consultant.
She eventually left LAUTECH for UI to better her career in Library Management.
Her famous slogan *_Wealth is in the Reading..._* was the theme of her campaign to children on the advantages of Library usage
In the later part of her years, she became a scholar in USA while she still served as an Associate Professor in UI.
She is survived by her Teenage Daughter.
*Rest On Sister Fadekemi, till we meet to part no more on the resurrection morning* less
*TRIBUTE FROM STUDENT CHRISTIAN MOVEMENT (SCM) LAUTECH ALUMNI*
???????? *FAREWELL*????????
DR FADEKEMI... more*TRIBUTE FROM STUDENT CHRISTIAN MOVEMENT (SCM) LAUTECH ALUMNI*
???????? *FAREWELL*????????
DR FADEKEMI OYEWUSI
(Nee Sangowusi)
_Transited to glory on 29th June after a brief illness????_
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*Dr Fadekemi*, was an active SCMer in UI (Ibadan) who served to stabilise the growth of SCM LAUTECH as a SeF.
▶️ *Role In SCM Lautech*
She was Choice Chairperson for our fellowship a few times, She participated in some induction programmes in d early days of SCM Lautech fellowship.
She was also a regular speaker in our meetings.
*Aunty Fade*, as was fondly called by most SCMers took SCMers in Lautech like siblings. She would rise up to help any SCMer in need. She defended, Stood up for SCMers in Lautech.
She helped us navigate some hurdles of accessing the school library.
Her office was always filled with SCMers who came for counseling or other assistance.
She looked so strong, assuring, very supportive and always cheerful.
Never a dull moment with her..
You would even... less
From the 2015 IASL Conference until recent days, dear Fadekemi was a strong supporter of reading, school librarianship, and global connections through the International Association of School Librarianship, among her many worthy academic connections. We... moreFrom the 2015 IASL Conference until recent days, dear Fadekemi was a strong supporter of reading, school librarianship, and global connections through the International Association of School Librarianship, among her many worthy academic connections. We will all miss her enthusiasm, devoted scholarship, and genuine friendship. less
Heaven holds my sister on this her special day. Happy Birthday to my lovely big sister in Heaven, Motivator, mother and Friend! Death can only takes you away from me but it can never take the previous bond, and memories we made together while on earth.... moreHeaven holds my sister on this her special day. Happy Birthday to my lovely big sister in Heaven, Motivator, mother and Friend! Death can only takes you away from me but it can never take the previous bond, and memories we made together while on earth. Dear Sister Fadex wishing you floods of happiness In heaven with tears in my eyes ಥ‿ಥ . Though sad to know that you're no more, I feel happy because I strongly believe that in Christ alone my hope is found that you are resting on the Lord bossom till we meet again .May God give us courage to face the days ahead and may him give all of us you left behind the fortitude to bear this unbearable loss .You are the best Rest on. Rest on ------ Dr Fadekemi Omobola Oyewusi nee Sangowusi less
Dearest sister Fadekemi,
I had looked forward to celebrate you on your birthday today but instead I had to summon the courage to bid you farewell at last.
You lectured me during my first year at Ladoke Akintola University of Technology and we both... moreDearest sister Fadekemi,
I had looked forward to celebrate you on your birthday today but instead I had to summon the courage to bid you farewell at last.
You lectured me during my first year at Ladoke Akintola University of Technology and we both attended RCCG Firebrand Parish but I remember we actually met on our journey to Benin to attend a wedding of another member of the church. Thereafter, we became friends but you turned to my sister, that sister whom anyone would wish for.
Your home in Ogbomoso was always warmly open to us to spend time with you and we were always welcome to your office at the Library too. I'll never forget the fond memories of the few months I spent with you, Pastor and Jemima while I was on a work assignment at Ibadan in 2014/2015. You had such a kind and beautiful heart that was oozed the love of Christ.
Sister Fadekemi, silent tears I have cried asking myself why you left suddenly without saying good bye. How my heart aches, no one will know. To lose a loved one so true and kind. I still cannot understand but what can I do? I take solace in the knowing that you're in a better place, resting in the bosom of Jesus Christ.
Thank you for all were to me, your kindness, words of encouragement, advice, prayer and love. I always thank God for making our paths cross and for blessing me with you.
I am glad that you're spending today (your birthday) by God's side. Enjoy heaven, sweet sis. Love you ❤ less
I wasn't very close to Sis Deke but I remember how I used to check on her anytime I had something to do at the school Library in my final year at LAUTECH.
She used to come with baby Jemima to work then and then she would ask how I was doing and I would... moreI wasn't very close to Sis Deke but I remember how I used to check on her anytime I had something to do at the school Library in my final year at LAUTECH.
She used to come with baby Jemima to work then and then she would ask how I was doing and I would indulge and reas the daily newspaper assigned to her office and then leave.
She always had a smile in her face.
Sis Deke, I pray that your soul will find eternal rest.
I pray also that the good Lord will by His loving arms guide Jemima through life in Jesus name. Amen less
I have been fiddling with this keyboard for more than two hours, still, it is difficult to put my thoughts together in writing. I'll rather not say a word but because the Internet "never" forgets, it is beneficial to say a few things... moreI have been fiddling with this keyboard for more than two hours, still, it is difficult to put my thoughts together in writing. I'll rather not say a word but because the Internet "never" forgets, it is beneficial to say a few things notwithstanding how incoherent it may sound.
Sister F-A-D-E-K-E-M-I, humnn! I couldn't have imagined I'll be writing this about you in a while.... after 2hrs telephone conversation roughly 6 weeks ago! It was our usual download, catchup, and tete-a-tete. We laughed, gisted, talked about the challenges, encouraged one another, adopted plans, and trusted God for Grace as usual...
But that was the last... It's encouraging to know that you know God, and you are walking the streets of gold, having adorned this stage called "earth" with your best character. Unrehearsed, you played your purposeful role, a lead cast in the short drama of life, you demonstrated
how to love and be loved...
how to lead and be led...
how to trust and be trusted...
how to serve and be served...
how to encourage and be encouraged...
how to wait and be strong!
Yes, the curtain was drawn unexpectedly, but your character had passed her message!
Our paths crossed in 1999/2000 at RCCG Firebrand, I had my burden and pains, it was that of a lone young man in LAUTECH... I just wanted to serve God and Study... Somehow you became a Big Sister... The Lautech library was a perfect hideout, and Firebrand drama rehearsals were the perfect place to unwind. You supported me to achieved my dual purposes - I served God and I studied! You gave me the opportunity to lead the drama team for years till I graduated from LAUTECH, and mentored academically. This is not just about me, you did the same to a good number of others who may not find the courage or right words to express your positive impacts.
Even after LAUTECH, your affection continued because it was in your nature. Caring, loving, gentle, and considerate you were! Your many visits to us at Lagos were not because you had no options, but because you are genuinely mindful, and these memories are dear to our hearts - I, Debbie, and the kids!
Rest on Dr Fadekemi Oyewusi!
We love you, but your savior certainly loves you more...
We sincerely pray and trust God to sustain your seed!
Debo Owoseni
PS: Pic 1 - Firebrand drama days (2000) & Pic 2 - Sis. Fadeke with one of the kids during one of her visits. less
Met Sister Fadex 1997 at Ladoke Akintola University ogbomoso when I was doing my pre- degree and she was Liberian 11 then went to the same church Rccg Firebrand, very dedicated, lover of God, Motivator,y gist partner always asks your well being even to... moreMet Sister Fadex 1997 at Ladoke Akintola University ogbomoso when I was doing my pre- degree and she was Liberian 11 then went to the same church Rccg Firebrand, very dedicated, lover of God, Motivator,y gist partner always asks your well being even to the day she passed on to Glory
Writing tribute is
very difficult task for all of us.
Your passing on to glory came as a shock in fact, a very rude one for that matter, but knowing that God controls our lives. we thank Him for the life you lived. You came, you saw, you fought the good fight of faith and you conquered is an apt summary of your life.
You were such a delight to be with, always smiling and ever supportive of a worthy vision. forward looking woman of God and full of hope that everything will be alright and all will be well even when you never sounded like someone who will die in the next 50 years. pleasant sister and mother that is very much admired and loved. It is a painful that she had to leave us at this time, Sleep on !!! Doctor Fadekemi Omobola Oyewusi (Nee Sangowusi) and keep on resting our beloved in the bossom of our Lord and Savior untill resurrection morning. Adieu till we meet to part no more.
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Dr Fadekemi, where did all the time go? It seems like only yesterday I met you at a hall in High Wycombe during your UK holiday while attending a friend daughter’s birthday with Jemima. Me and you were chatting, laughing and taking pictures as if... moreDr Fadekemi, where did all the time go? It seems like only yesterday I met you at a hall in High Wycombe during your UK holiday while attending a friend daughter’s birthday with Jemima. Me and you were chatting, laughing and taking pictures as if we’ve known each other forever. Even though many years have passed since then, the memories I have of you are so alive. I was profoundly touched by your beautiful spirit and genuine warmness.
The incredible legacies you’ve left will live on in the hearts of people you touched. May God strengthen and uphold Jemima and all your loved ones. less
I met Kemi and Jemimah at Oakmont Baptist Church shortly after they arrived in Greenville, NC and we became immediate friends! We spent lots of time together....it didn’t take me long to realize what a remarkable person Kemi was! Having her as a... moreI met Kemi and Jemimah at Oakmont Baptist Church shortly after they arrived in Greenville, NC and we became immediate friends! We spent lots of time together....it didn’t take me long to realize what a remarkable person Kemi was! Having her as a friend enriched my life in more ways than one. Her trust and faith in the Lord was apparent to all who knew her. Jemimah, she was very proud of you!!! She made a point to share her hopes and dreams for you with me on a few occasions. You were the love of her life! May God continue to comfort us and strengthen us in our grieving and May He be ever so near to her family, especially Jemimah. less
Sis Fadekemi, as I write this, I weep because you left too soon without saying goodbye. I also laugh when I remember the many hours we spent on the phone talking, laughing at ourselves and laughing at others. So many pleasant memories!
We met in GT in... moreSis Fadekemi, as I write this, I weep because you left too soon without saying goodbye. I also laugh when I remember the many hours we spent on the phone talking, laughing at ourselves and laughing at others. So many pleasant memories!
We met in GT in the nineties and since then we have remained friends. What a friend you were. What a sister you were. You were so kind and never to speak evil about anyone. You forgave easily. You never judged anyone. You had so much faith in God, it was infectious!
I will miss you but I am consoled that you are at the bosom of your Lord and savior, Jesus Christ. My prayer is that God will uphold your daughter, family and friends.
I knew Dr Fadekemi Oyewusi in 2008, I was an undergraduate at Ladoke Akintola University of Technology, Ogbomoso then.
Dr. and her late husband were our parish pastors.
Mummy Oyewusi, as we fondly call her has an enviable and amiable personality. She... moreI knew Dr Fadekemi Oyewusi in 2008, I was an undergraduate at Ladoke Akintola University of Technology, Ogbomoso then.
Dr. and her late husband were our parish pastors.
Mummy Oyewusi, as we fondly call her has an enviable and amiable personality. She was a huge inspiration and a role model to the sisters in church. She is humble, patient, kind and loving. Her office and home is open to all, she is ever willing to help. Personally, she inspired me, she made me understand that one can be a christian woman and be beautiful and successful at the same time. Every of her teachings during the sister's forum back then are still part of me till date.
Mummy ensured she kept in touch with everyone, I wish I have the power to bring her back, she is too good to leave so soon.
My only consolation is that she slept in the Lord, may the Lord grant her eternal rest , may her families be comforted and above all, may the Lord never leave Jemimah, may He take care of her.
Adieu Dr Fadekemi Oyewusi, you will always be in our hearts. less
Death, a five letter word, is but a passing phase of life. It is painful to write about the sudden departure of a caring lecturer Dr. Fadekemi Oyewusi. The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living. What we have done for ourselves alone dies... moreDeath, a five letter word, is but a passing phase of life. It is painful to write about the sudden departure of a caring lecturer Dr. Fadekemi Oyewusi. The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living. What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us, but what we have done for others and the world remains and immortal. Dr. Oyewusi Fadekemi, your good deeds to mankind remains immortal and continue to be a reference point.
Continue to Rest in peace my humble, amiable, dedicated and diligent lecturer. You will forever be missed. May God give the family, friends, students you have taught the fortitude to bear the unbearable loss. W less
Fadeke was my secondary school friend. We were in the same class at Abadina College U. I. We lost contact after our WAEC and got reconnected in 2015 when my daughter got admitted into her department in U. I LARIS. I never knew our coming together would... moreFadeke was my secondary school friend. We were in the same class at Abadina College U. I. We lost contact after our WAEC and got reconnected in 2015 when my daughter got admitted into her department in U. I LARIS. I never knew our coming together would be so short. She was a gentle spirited woman. I loved her so much. I prayed all night on the 29th June but didn't have an inkling she was on her way to heaven. Will miss her so much. May God tabernacle with Jemimah and help her grow in Jesus Mighty name. Let's all take heart. It is well. less
I remember Sis Fadeke so much during my undergraduate days at Ladoke Akintola University of Technology,Ogbomosho. I had just joined the RCCG, Firebrand Parish with my friend back then. She was the drama group leader and she encouraged me so much then.... moreI remember Sis Fadeke so much during my undergraduate days at Ladoke Akintola University of Technology,Ogbomosho. I had just joined the RCCG, Firebrand Parish with my friend back then. She was the drama group leader and she encouraged me so much then. She personally made sure we were part of the cast of the drama that was to be presented at that time. She indeed is an encourager. Thank you ma for imparting my life and teaching me that service to God can never be over emphasised. May her soul rest in peace. Joyce J.
She was a wonderful Sister. Words will fail me to describe her great personality. She encouraged us (Ayo, Dolapo and I) in our undergraduate days at Lautech. Ever loving, ever jovial and accommodating. She trusted us as male friends to her younger sister. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord. Goodnight Sister Fadekemi.
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Introduction
Do you know how it feels to lose one of your favourite aunts? You may not want to know. You'll be very sad and it's an unpleasant experience (feeling). At some point you remember all the great memories that you shared with her. Let me tell... moreIntroduction
Do you know how it feels to lose one of your favourite aunts? You may not want to know. You'll be very sad and it's an unpleasant experience (feeling). At some point you remember all the great memories that you shared with her. Let me tell you about some things I know about her.
SOME MEMORIES
The first time I ever met "big mommy" was last August. It's not a very long time ago, but a lot of things can happen in a short period of time. The first time I met her she reminded me of someone I met in South Africa. She had almost the same personality, she spent a lot of time with us and bought us a lot of very cool things. She took us to the library and to the store and bought us many lovely things. I enjoyed her time here. Sometimes we played games and enjoyed dinner together. At some points, we sat down and watched a few movies. She is very kind, generous and uplifting.
WE WILL MISS YOU!
We will miss you, Big mommy, you've done many great things. Thank you for the way you enjoy guiding little children. We will always remember you.
LORD THANK YOU FOR BIG MOMMY.
LORD THANK YOU FOR GUIDING HER. THROUGH HER 48 YEARS ON THIS EARTH.
LORD PLEASE BE WITH US AND MAY BIG MOMMY MAKE IT TO HEAVEN.
GOD BE WITH YOU FADEKEMI OYEWUSI.
IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME WE PRAY! Amen!!
Do you know what it is like to lose one of your dearest Aunties? Well, you would most likely not want to know what it feels like because it feels terrible and very very sad. In this tribute I will tell you about my Auntie and how... moreBig Mommy Is The best.
Do you know what it is like to lose one of your dearest Aunties? Well, you would most likely not want to know what it feels like because it feels terrible and very very sad. In this tribute I will tell you about my Auntie and how she contributed to our society.
Big Mommy was one of the most joyful and peaceful people that I knew. She also went to different schools and churches to do different things with the children, teaching them about reading.
We Miss You Big Mommy.
KK
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My mum was the most wonderful person in the whole wide world. She was a very strong person and she wasn’t a quitter.
If there is something about her that I’ll never forget, it is how patient she was and how she didn’t lose her faith in God even... moreMy mum was the most wonderful person in the whole wide world. She was a very strong person and she wasn’t a quitter.
If there is something about her that I’ll never forget, it is how patient she was and how she didn’t lose her faith in God even during the times when it seemed like there was no hope.
It’s really sad and painful that she had to go at a young age but during this short time she lived, she accomplished a lot.
If there is something you should take away from the life she led it would be the fact that to be able to be successful in this life you have to be able to adapt to situations and you should be patient and kind to everyone including those who don’t like you.
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My number 1 supporter in everything I do especially my YouTube Channel. Always writing comments and excited to watch my videos. The last word u told me was, “you can’t wait to leave hospital to watch my latest videos”. Anyway, Jemimah loves you & I... moreMy number 1 supporter in everything I do especially my YouTube Channel. Always writing comments and excited to watch my videos. The last word u told me was, “you can’t wait to leave hospital to watch my latest videos”. Anyway, Jemimah loves you & I love you. ❤️🕊 This isn’t the end.
Over the years, senior mama always reached out to me via WhatsApp always asking how I was doing and taking interest in my life.
It brought me so much joy to know that I had her caring for me. With her passing, it has brought me great sadness knowing... moreOver the years, senior mama always reached out to me via WhatsApp always asking how I was doing and taking interest in my life.
It brought me so much joy to know that I had her caring for me. With her passing, it has brought me great sadness knowing that a person who was a big part in my life is misssing and I hope that she is watching me up in heaven and will be proud of who I become in the future.
There will never be another aunt like senior mama, my favourite memory of her being when we sat down in the sitting room and we talked about chocolate for hours on end as we joked about living and eating a chocolate house. For years she loved, cared,... moreThere will never be another aunt like senior mama, my favourite memory of her being when we sat down in the sitting room and we talked about chocolate for hours on end as we joked about living and eating a chocolate house. For years she loved, cared, provided comfort to anyone who needed it, and will leave an intangible mark on everyone who knew her.
My aunt would always take care of me and my brothers and treat us like we were one of her own. She was one of the kindest women I ever had the pleasure of knowing. We would joke and have fun together, she had high hopes for our futures and she knew we... moreMy aunt would always take care of me and my brothers and treat us like we were one of her own. She was one of the kindest women I ever had the pleasure of knowing. We would joke and have fun together, she had high hopes for our futures and she knew we could go far in life.
—-- Jade less