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In order to commemorate and honor the life of Ben, we ask you upload any photos, videos, stories, or memories you have of Ben in the "memories and condolences" tab. In honor of Ben, his family has asked donations be directed to Mental Health CT or the CT Humane Society.
Ben Sarkis (19) was a... see moreIn order to commemorate and honor the life of Ben, we ask you upload any photos, videos, stories, or memories you have of Ben in the "memories and condolences" tab. In honor of Ben, his family has asked donations be directed to Mental Health CT or the CT Humane Society.
Ben Sarkis (19) was a beloved member of the Sarkis family and RHAM community. His genuine, kind, and funny personality brought love, life, and laughter to all he encountered. His artistic creativity and bold humor made his personality unforgettable, and he was admirably true to himself. Even from a simple conversation, he knew how to make you laugh. He will be deeply missed by all of those who were fortunate enough to have known him.
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Benjamin Arthur Sarkis, 19, of Marlborough, CT died Saturday, March 13, 2021, in Plymouth, NH. Ben was the beloved son of Michelle (Karlin) and Jon Sarkis, and best friend and brother to Matt Sarkis. He was deeply loved by his father, mother and brother, and will be dearly missed. Ben was a 2019 graduate of RHAM High School in Hebron, CT and was attending Plymouth State University. He was a Dean's List student, studying English. Ben... see moreBenjamin Arthur Sarkis, 19, of Marlborough, CT died Saturday, March 13, 2021, in Plymouth, NH. Ben was the beloved son of Michelle (Karlin) and Jon Sarkis, and best friend and brother to Matt Sarkis. He was deeply loved by his father, mother and brother, and will be dearly missed. Ben was a 2019 graduate of RHAM High School in Hebron, CT and was attending Plymouth State University. He was a Dean's List student, studying English. Ben was described by friends as sweet, kind and genuine. He had compassion for animals, especially his dog and "good buddy" Rudy. Additionally, Ben loved the outdoors and vacationing with family in Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont and Lake George. He will be remembered for his sense of humor, gentle soul and creativity. Ben was cherished by his family and friends and will be missed by all who knew him. Besides his parents and brother, he is survived by his grandparents, Adrienne Cohen of Stoughton, MA, Robert and Diana Karlin of Los Angeles, CA, Jerry and Faye Cohen of Sharon, MA and Shirley Sarkis of Glastonbury, CT, his aunts and uncles Adam and Heather Karlin, Jeffrey and Erica Cohen, Nicole Cohen and Dave Fisher, Charles and Lynn Sarkis and Saadia "Betsy" Sarkis, his cousins Ella and Theo Karlin, Emma and Ryan Cunningham, Gabrielle and Levi Cohen, and many relatives and friends. He was predeceased by his loving great-grandmother Dorothy Karlin. At the family's request, Ben's burial will be private. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date, when COVID restrictions are lifted. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Ben's memory can be made to Mental Health Connecticut (MHC), 61 South Main Street, Suite 100, West Hartford, CT 06107, or the Connecticut Humane Society, 701 Russell Road, Newington, CT 06111.
Man, it has taken me a while to digest this...it still hurts to think about, but I only found my way back to this page because I still think of you, Ben.
I was lucky enough to see much of you growing up, and maybe missed some of the more recent years,... moreMan, it has taken me a while to digest this...it still hurts to think about, but I only found my way back to this page because I still think of you, Ben.
I was lucky enough to see much of you growing up, and maybe missed some of the more recent years, but definitely was proud of who you had become and loved to hear stories about you. Early on I knew you were a special person and would do big things and be a great leader. You were unapologetically you. From some of the comments from your classmates, it's obvious how many people you have touched and helped smile.
Michelle, Jon, Matt - my deepest condolences go out to you. I know the amazing upbringing Ben had and the love that surrounded him. Love you guys. I'm so, so sorry. less
I met Ben Fall of 2019. Ben saw me sitting alone at Prospect dining hall and came to talk to me. We exchanged numbers and continued talking. I can’t recall how we started dating, but we spent day after day together for about a month straight. Ben was... moreI met Ben Fall of 2019. Ben saw me sitting alone at Prospect dining hall and came to talk to me. We exchanged numbers and continued talking. I can’t recall how we started dating, but we spent day after day together for about a month straight. Ben was so kind and caring and whenever I needed support, he was there for me. When I was with Ben, it seemed like everybody knew him. Everyone was always saying hi to him. Then one day Ben got into a skateboarding accident and was on crutches and for the first time I felt like I was able to take care of him. I have so many stories of Ben and I play them in my head over and over. He was, and he is such an amazing, kind and funny person. I have never been one to believe in angels and spirits, but the night Ben passed away I felt like I had someone else looking out for me. He’s not gone. He is still with everyone of us. I wish I could tell him how much I cared for him. Even tho we only talked a few times a month after we spilt apart, he still meant so much to me. less
Ben was a regular fixture in our home over the years. I would see his unmistakable form trundling through the woods or come downstairs to find him contemplating the contents of our fridge. Even now, I look around the house and see random things that... moreBen was a regular fixture in our home over the years. I would see his unmistakable form trundling through the woods or come downstairs to find him contemplating the contents of our fridge. Even now, I look around the house and see random things that Ben left behind: a skateboard, a jackknife, a metal bar that the boys once used to make a sled jump in the front yard. He and Cade were subjected to more than a few of my verbal tirades after doing many of the truly dumb things that teenage boys are apt to do. Even so, Ben raved about my cooking, and as he got older, we engaged in interesting discussions about politics, education policy, career paths. We didn’t often agree, but I looked forward to hearing how his unique mind would approach those same issues after a few more years of life experience. Ben was irreverent, impulsive, curious, and funny. I loved him for these qualities - and sometimes, in spite of them. I will always remember him smiling. less
I had the pleasure of getting close to Ben at 4-H camp over the years. He was constantly keeping me on my toes and always making those around him laugh. He was a goofy, outgoing, and an amazing person all around. I’ll never forget him at all the camp... moreI had the pleasure of getting close to Ben at 4-H camp over the years. He was constantly keeping me on my toes and always making those around him laugh. He was a goofy, outgoing, and an amazing person all around. I’ll never forget him at all the camp events, getting scolded for laughing during vespers and always saving him and Sebby a seat so I could eat snack/meals with them. I will truly miss him and all the fond memories I’m lucky enough to have of Ben. My love and prayers go out to the Sarkis family, close friends, and everyone grieving during this very difficult time. less
Ben was such a great person. I don’t even know where to start, i knew something was up but I didn’t know it was that bad. I wish I could just have 5 more minutes with him to tell him how much I love him. I remember the last time we spoke, I didn’t... moreBen was such a great person. I don’t even know where to start, i knew something was up but I didn’t know it was that bad. I wish I could just have 5 more minutes with him to tell him how much I love him. I remember the last time we spoke, I didn’t know it would be the last time, neither the last words “peace”. It was a short conversation but it was very meaningful. I heard someone say this that I really liked, and made me feel a lot better. “This is not goodbye this is see you later”. It’s true. Ben was so funny and chill and loved everyone, I’ve never heard him say anything bad about anyone, if there’s one thing Ive learned from this experience it’s to appreciate the good, small moments because it could be the last. less
Ben has always been a natural entertainer. In third grade, when Michael Jackson had recently passed away, Ben was openly upset about it. So upset, in fact, he felt he needed to fill Michael Jackson’s shoes—and he came close. He... moreFrom Maura Ramsay:
Ben has always been a natural entertainer. In third grade, when Michael Jackson had recently passed away, Ben was openly upset about it. So upset, in fact, he felt he needed to fill Michael Jackson’s shoes—and he came close. He performed various songs for us(including a few dance numbers) and assured us that he could take the place of Michael Jackson. Fast forward 8 years, we were in sophomore biology together, and the singing and entertaining continued. Our class would disperse into small groups to work on class work, and as we were all working away, we would hear The Lion Sleeps Tonight being sung softly, until eventually it would turn into a much louder rendition, and our teacher would have to ask him to quiet down. But that was the kind of kid Ben always was. He was never afraid to be himself and whatever he did was sure to get a good laugh. He lit up a room like I’ve never seen in anyone else. less
I had Big Ben in my Stats class and he was an absolute blast. One day in class he was talking about his point of view on Gatsby and I asked if he would share his English presentation in my Stats class. His presentation(which might be... moreFrom Shaun Keane:
I had Big Ben in my Stats class and he was an absolute blast. One day in class he was talking about his point of view on Gatsby and I asked if he would share his English presentation in my Stats class. His presentation(which might be deemed inappropriate by some) was awesome. He took control of the room, kept everyone engaged, and I thought it was great. Ben's humor was talented and unique. I am so incredibly sorry for his loss and it brings tears to my eyes that we lost this young man. less
Please accept my deepest condolences. There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. Jon has been my Boss at work for about 9yrs and he ALWAYS had wonderful hilarious stories about his family - all the boys... moreJon, Michelle, & Matt,
Please accept my deepest condolences. There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. Jon has been my Boss at work for about 9yrs and he ALWAYS had wonderful hilarious stories about his family - all the boys numerous games, him coaching some of the games, their many camping trips, trip to Italy, him cooking for them etc. He always raves about the boys and Michelle. I hope and pray all those fond memories of Ben bring you some comfort during this difficult time. Sending you all healing prayers and comforting hugs. My heartfelt thoughts are with you guys in this time of sorrow and I hope you all feel surrounded by much love. God Bless
I didn’t know Ben very well but I had a few friends that were close with him. They were very few times I hung out with him and we were in the same Senior English Class. It made me realize that he was one the few people I felt comfortable being around... moreI didn’t know Ben very well but I had a few friends that were close with him. They were very few times I hung out with him and we were in the same Senior English Class. It made me realize that he was one the few people I felt comfortable being around with.
He always knew when to crack a joke and wasn’t afraid to do things with other people. I remember one summer his friends and I came up to his house one night. His mom opens the door all confused and says “what’s going on?” Us being stupid kids just asked if Ben wanted to join us.
She then calls him and said “Ben a group of people are waiting outside for you!” He comes out with a questionable look on his face and then sees us. He agreed on the spot and his mom told him to bring a jacket and behave. We all laughed by his reactions and just continued on with the night. Me being an anxious kid he made me feel better by just seeing him jump around the road and making the group laugh.
In my third grade class I was a very stressed and anxious little girl. Not just me, but a strong majority of my class was very serious when it came to school. Ben was very different, he was the one person to bring laughter, smiles, and... moreFrom Erin Hughes:
In my third grade class I was a very stressed and anxious little girl. Not just me, but a strong majority of my class was very serious when it came to school. Ben was very different, he was the one person to bring laughter, smiles, and jokes. In particular, I will never get the image of him doing the Elvis dance move where he stands on his tip toes and grabs his hat. In the most stressful of times for me, he was the one to lighten the room with a laugh. I will never forget the Elvis dance move that no matter how down I was could pick me up.
Ben and I were one of the only openly jewish people growing up in Marlborough. We would always joke about this and whenever we were in a class together we would share and celebrate Judaism with the class. My grandmother and his mom would come in and talk about the traditions of the religion. My grandmother would make latkes and his mom would bring in dreidels for the class. This was all through elementary school. First semester senior year of high school, we sat at the same lunch table with a couple other people. He said again then that my grandmothers latkes were sooooo good.
Ben made all of those around him much more happy than he'd ever know. He will be heavily missed and I will never forget these memories. I am so sorry for the family and friends of Ben. We were never very close but the light he brought to life will never be forgotten for me. less
Ben had a certain light, spark, and joy about him that brightened every room. Whether it was a witty joke, a smile in the hall, or a making everyone laugh, Ben had the ability to make everything light hearted and happy. From growing up along side him, I... moreBen had a certain light, spark, and joy about him that brightened every room. Whether it was a witty joke, a smile in the hall, or a making everyone laugh, Ben had the ability to make everything light hearted and happy. From growing up along side him, I can speak on behalf of MES students and RHAM Class of 2019 that this spark will be greatly missed. The stars and sun are certainly shining a bit brighter and my deepest thoughts and prayers to Ben’s family & closest friends. Blessed to have known, laughed, and smiled with Ben. less
Thanks for saving the rham youth lax 7th/8th grade season when you volunteered to be the GOALiE for your team! We loved to cheer for you, even if the score was not in our favor. You were a good friend to many of our 'borough boys.
Ben was truly a special person. He had such a huge personality, and heart, that anybody who met him would never forget him. His ability to challenge every status quo with both intelligence and humor is something that is rare. He was the student that had... moreBen was truly a special person. He had such a huge personality, and heart, that anybody who met him would never forget him. His ability to challenge every status quo with both intelligence and humor is something that is rare. He was the student that had every teacher suppressing their laughs, the friend that could make you smile on your worst day. I think a lot of us admired, even envied, Ben's ability to be unapologetically himself. I know I did. I wish Ben understood the huge impact he had on our grade, and our whole school. He will forever be remembered as the kind, bold, unique, confident, amazing friend, brother, and son he was. less
What I loved most about Ben is his uniqueness. He always made me think about things in a different light. He never cared about what was supposed to be, but always made his own path. usually with little regard for the consequences. He made me laugh out... moreWhat I loved most about Ben is his uniqueness. He always made me think about things in a different light. He never cared about what was supposed to be, but always made his own path. usually with little regard for the consequences. He made me laugh out loud and also shake my head in disbelief at his boldness and courage. He was never, ever boring. Ben was truly one of a kind, and I will miss him dearly. less