We created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Rema Stella. Collecting GatheringUs Support stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. Click on the heart to let us know you were here and sign the guest book. PLEASE LEAVE PICTURES AND SHORT MESSAGES TO MOM. Thank you for contributing to... see moreWe created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Rema Stella. Collecting GatheringUs Support stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. Click on the heart to let us know you were here and sign the guest book. PLEASE LEAVE PICTURES AND SHORT MESSAGES TO MOM. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial.
OBITUARY
I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I’d like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun;
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
Rema became a great friend of mine close to 20 yrs ago. I met her when she worked at Harrahs in Atlantic City. I played roulette and she would always try to get my number “12”. We both were born in December.
I visited her home in Ocean City numerous... moreRema became a great friend of mine close to 20 yrs ago. I met her when she worked at Harrahs in Atlantic City. I played roulette and she would always try to get my number “12”. We both were born in December.
I visited her home in Ocean City numerous times and she would roll out the red carpet(extraordinary hospitality).
When she retired and moved to Carolina, I visited her there, we kept in touch, sent cards and had phone conversations( mostly brief) she did not like to be on the phone long.
I had the pleasure of having dinner with Drew, Michele,my daughter and granddaughter late this past July in Carolina. Rema was a remarkable person and more.
One of my fondest memories was my 60th bday, 13 yrs ago. She came to Virginia to help me celebrate and insisted on contributing a dish,(meatballs). As you well know you cannot say no to Rema once her mind is made up. Little did I realize she measures each meatball individually to be sure they are the same weight and size. There were a lot of them, only Rema 🙂.
I know she was getting tired,and God decided to take her home where she will have peaceful rest forever. It hurts my heart, but God knows what’s best. I will never forget her kind and loving heart, Rema was a true one in a million person. I also will never forget the good care Drew and Michele gave her until God called her home. What a great job❤️
Rema will be in my heart forever🙏🏾❤️
Forever Friend,
Roz Ramsey
Newport News, Virginia less
Rema was the best mother-in-law anyone could ask for! Rema welcomed me into the family with her big heart and smile. She shared all of Vic’s favorite recipes that she cooked him..her famous gravy, lobster (cutting the 3 membranes), twice baked... moreRema was the best mother-in-law anyone could ask for! Rema welcomed me into the family with her big heart and smile. She shared all of Vic’s favorite recipes that she cooked him..her famous gravy, lobster (cutting the 3 membranes), twice baked potatoes, and her famous pepperoni roll! Rema was filled with love and laughter, and it was contagious! We love you Rema and miss you! ❤️ less
Aunt Rema was always full of love. Her “ ah, hon” always made me feel seen and a big hug from her made everything ok. I loved seeing her boss my dad around “now, Rom,” and usually it meant she was coming to our defense. I have wonderful memories... moreAunt Rema was always full of love. Her “ ah, hon” always made me feel seen and a big hug from her made everything ok. I loved seeing her boss my dad around “now, Rom,” and usually it meant she was coming to our defense. I have wonderful memories of her support for us playing music, she always asked how we were doing in school and was genuinely interested in whatever new thing we were up to. Boy did she love to dance and have fun! She always showed up for the family; good times and hard ones too.
She will be missed so very much.
All our love,
Therese less
So many things to say, but the most fundamental thing was when Aunt Re spoke your name, you knew it was spoken with genuine love, care and concern for you as a person. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.... moreSo many things to say, but the most fundamental thing was when Aunt Re spoke your name, you knew it was spoken with genuine love, care and concern for you as a person. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. (1 Cor. 13:13). Miss you and love you Aunt Re. Stephanie and Mark. less
A few things I learned along the way from my Mother In Law
*Take the stairs. Keep moving. Age is only a number and you don’t have to feel or act your age.
*Grandkids can eat whatever they want at MomMom’s. Her house. Her rules. (I adopted this rule... moreA few things I learned along the way from my Mother In Law
*Take the stairs. Keep moving. Age is only a number and you don’t have to feel or act your age.
*Grandkids can eat whatever they want at MomMom’s. Her house. Her rules. (I adopted this rule myself 13 years ago.)
*Love them as your own. As a step parent myself, I never, ever heard her use "step" in any way.
*Disposable plates are perfectly acceptable.
We lovingly refer to the white plastic plates from Sam’s as MomMom plates. I use them often.
*Always have containers on hand to send food home with family and friends.
*Coffee is always better with a splash of Baileys!
*I will never have Italian food that good again.
Love you forever. Miss you always.
May you be reunited with family and friends in heaven, hosting the party and dancing again! less
Aunt Rema’s energy was simply vivacious! She not only knew how to enjoy life she did so with the kindest and loving heart. The girls are together again and I am sure are back to their usual chats, laughs and bantering. 💕✨
The best memory of family in this picture. Aunt Rema always a glowing smile. One of the pictures of aunt was on the upstairs deck to the little apartment at aunt Rita's house in wildwood. Looks like aunt Rema was cooking a meal for Drew!
In the warm embrace of my childhood memories, your presence shined like a sunbeam through the curtains of time. The moments spent in your cozy home remain etched in my heart, each detail vivid and cherished.
In the warm embrace of my childhood memories, your presence shined like a sunbeam through the curtains of time. The moments spent in your cozy home remain etched in my heart, each detail vivid and cherished.
Your kitchen was a sanctuary of flavors—a symphony of spices and love. The aroma of your cooking danced in the air, drawing everyone near. You stirred pots with grace, infusing every dish with a dash of magic. Your generosity knew no bounds; anyone who crossed your threshold was welcomed with open arms and a hearty meal.
And oh, your plants! They thrived under your care, their leaves reaching toward the sun as if mirroring your resilience. You tended to them with tenderness, whispering secrets only they understood. Their greenery breathed life into your home, a testament to your nurturing spirit.
But it was your smile that lit up the room—a sunflower turning toward the light. Its brilliance reflected in your dancing eyes, twinkling with mischief and wisdom. Even in the face of life's storms, you stood tall, a beacon of strength. Adversity merely sharpened your resolve, like a diamond forged under pressure.
Your energy knew no bounds. You spun stories, laughter, and dreams into a tapestry of joy. We reveled in your company, our hearts lighter in your presence. The world, too, felt brighter with you in it—a canvas painted with hues of Aunt Rema's love.
Now, as the sun sets on your earthly journey, I imagine you dancing among the stars. Your spirit, unyielding and free, continues to glimmer—a guiding light for those who remember your warmth. The world may be a little less bright without you physically here, but your legacy burns like a constellation, forever etched in our souls.
With love and gratitude,
Your niece, Lorraine Leone-Azzano less
Aunt Rema the early years and later on. How beautiful she is
Inside and outOur hearts are with you. I’ll always remember
How strong you were but fair. One memory I’ll always have was
When we were kids and we did something wrong you would
Always... moreAunt Rema the early years and later on. How beautiful she is
Inside and outOur hearts are with you. I’ll always remember
How strong you were but fair. One memory I’ll always have was
When we were kids and we did something wrong you would
Always yell at Drew. Even when I split my head open you yelled at Drew. Thanks Drew for taking the falls. I’ll miss you Aunt Rema
Especially the food. Oh god the food. Love you always less
Rebecca Patrowicz
George, the pictures are fantastic. Thank you for sharing. I especially love the photos of Aunt Rema on the steps and the photo of “the Leone girls” walking into the church on your Mom and Dad’s wedding day.
Just wanted to add another fun memory of Mommom, whenever it was her birthday or if I just wanted to chat, we would always email each other as we both didn’t like talking on the phone. I have a recipe for her famous twice baked potatoes saved from her... moreJust wanted to add another fun memory of Mommom, whenever it was her birthday or if I just wanted to chat, we would always email each other as we both didn’t like talking on the phone. I have a recipe for her famous twice baked potatoes saved from her from about 12 years ago. Here is a photo of her and her IT support (my dad - Chris Stella) lol. less
My name is Jackie, this past weekend I got to see my Mommom for the last time. I am so thankful for the years down the shore I had with her. As I told her this weekend, I loved going down the shore and especially lately i have been missing her homemade... moreMy name is Jackie, this past weekend I got to see my Mommom for the last time. I am so thankful for the years down the shore I had with her. As I told her this weekend, I loved going down the shore and especially lately i have been missing her homemade iced tea and raviolis. Of course if we wanted dessert first, we were allowed to at her house. I remember her being one of the only adults to like my nose ring when i got it at 19. She said it was so cute. She hasn’t seen Ricky (her first great grandchild) in a few years but she got to meet Teddy. Unfortunately she didnt get to meet Lizzie, but i showed her photos and talked about her. She reacted the most to us when we showed her photos whether it was of me and my cousins when we were little or photos of my family. Until we meet again Mommom I love you! less
When my parents and I (Mark and Stephanie Case) would drive back from Florida to New Jersey for the summer, we would make a stop in North Carolina to visit Rema, Drew and Michelle. Rema always lit up with joy seeing my dog, Milo. She loved to give him... moreWhen my parents and I (Mark and Stephanie Case) would drive back from Florida to New Jersey for the summer, we would make a stop in North Carolina to visit Rema, Drew and Michelle. Rema always lit up with joy seeing my dog, Milo. She loved to give him kisses and play with him. He loved her back just as much! less
This story is from Chris and Christine Stella. "Our daughter Katie Rose is Katie Rose because of mom. We did not have a girl name picked out - but came up with Katherine Rose when she arrived and was a girl. She was going to be called Katie. When... moreThis story is from Chris and Christine Stella. "Our daughter Katie Rose is Katie Rose because of mom. We did not have a girl name picked out - but came up with Katherine Rose when she arrived and was a girl. She was going to be called Katie. When your mom came to see us in the hospital and I said her name is Katherine Rose and we will call her Katie your mom said Katie Rose. And I said no Katie. And mom said you have to call her Katie Rose. It's a beautiful name and I wasn't gonna argue with her (can you just hear the conversation we were having?? )
and thus that is how Katie Rose came to be!! đź’•" [Rose is Rema's mom's name] less
We love you mom! We miss you. And was she a tough cookie. During a summer rain and lightning storm we warned her not to take her usual outdoor shower. She said “That stuff doesn’t bother me. I’ll take my shower anyway.” Sure enough, lightning hit... moreWe love you mom! We miss you. And was she a tough cookie. During a summer rain and lightning storm we warned her not to take her usual outdoor shower. She said “That stuff doesn’t bother me. I’ll take my shower anyway.” Sure enough, lightning hit near the house and mom got shocked. When we ran to her to ask if she was OK? She said, “I’m fine, it was just a small lightning bolt. Nothing I can’t handle” :) That’s one tough woman. less