Heifer International's mission is to end hunger and poverty and to care for the Earth using gifts of... moreHeifer International's mission is to end hunger and poverty and to care for the Earth using gifts of livestock, seeds, trees and training in sustainable agriculture community development projects to help millions of people become self-reliant. Since 1944, Heifer has helped transform the lives of more than 18.5 million families (94.5 million people) by giving them gifts of cows, goats and other livestock.
Along with the animals, families receive training in animal care and conservation for environmentally sound agricultural development.
We also provide training in community development, gender equity, sharing and caring, strategic planning and other subjects as needed, including literacy. The process takes several years and is not declared successful until the community shows sustained improvement in nutrition, income and self-reliance. Each family that receives an animal agrees to Pass on the Gift by sharing the first-born female offspring of their animal with another family in need, so each gift of livestock starts a chain of self-reliance that spreads throughout entire communities. less
We created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Lee Benjamin. Collecting your stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. Click on the heart to let us know you were here and to receive email updates. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial.
On behalf of the Northern Valley League of Women Voters, we send our deepest condolences to Lee's family. Lee was a smart , generous and gracious woman. For a number of years she opened her home to the League membership for our Annual Holiday Party in... moreOn behalf of the Northern Valley League of Women Voters, we send our deepest condolences to Lee's family. Lee was a smart , generous and gracious woman. For a number of years she opened her home to the League membership for our Annual Holiday Party in December. A wonderful host in a beautiful home ! She is remembered fondly.
With sympathy. less
Lee was an extraordinary person of the highest standards. Energetic, giving, and caring were some of her many virtues. She and Don were pillars of the First Congregational Church of Haworth, which is where I first met her. She immediately embraced me... moreLee was an extraordinary person of the highest standards. Energetic, giving, and caring were some of her many virtues. She and Don were pillars of the First Congregational Church of Haworth, which is where I first met her. She immediately embraced me and my daughter, Alison, into her sphere of friendship. Lee was always involved with others, and she was always cooking! One couldn’t help but smile when Lee was present as she bustled about with her cheerfulness and kindness. And, oh that shortbread! Who can ever eat shortbread without comparing it to Lee’s and finding hers to always be the best.
Rest in peace, Lee. We will miss you. less
Alison Weingarden remembers:
Lee was a tremendously caring and intelligent person. She had a special way of interacting with people where she was completely focused on them. Her own life was rich and full of travel and experiences but she loved her... moreAlison Weingarden remembers:
Lee was a tremendously caring and intelligent person. She had a special way of interacting with people where she was completely focused on them. Her own life was rich and full of travel and experiences but she loved her friends in Haworth and gave so much back to the community. I miss her terribly, especially her cheerful and energetic personality and knowing that I had a wise, steadfast friend and supporter for more than 30 years- nearly as long as I can remember. less
The following is being posted by Jen Chin but lovingly written by
Jan Farrington:
You’ve all heard about Lee’s wonderful qualities, but I’m here to tell you about what Lee wasn’t, which is on time. Many of you are smiling and nodding,... moreThe following is being posted by Jen Chin but lovingly written by
Jan Farrington:
You’ve all heard about Lee’s wonderful qualities, but I’m here to tell you about what Lee wasn’t, which is on time. Many of you are smiling and nodding, remembering that she was almost always late. We accepted this quirk because we loved her so much and because she was always worth waiting for. She always seemed puzzled because I believe she really thought she was on time. Much of this behavior involved food and we all know how she loved to cook. An invitation for lunch at one usually meant sitting down at three, dinner at seven, maybe at nine, if we helped. I recall a church member standing at the stove frying donuts for dessert while Lee bustled about the kitchen, finishing the preparations. She was always “almost ready ” when we arrived. The important thing is that the food was always delicious and worth waiting for. When we finally pried Lee out of the Kitchen, she was a brilliant conversationalist, informed, intelligent, knowledgeable about so many topics from history to current events, the latter thanks to her beloved NY Times. Again, well worth waiting for. I have a vision of St. Peter standing at the pearly gates with a big smile on his face as Lee arrived, a little late, bearing a pan of shortbread. Yes, worth waiting for!! less
Michael BenjaminJan, what an honest and heartfelt comment! Carolyn and I are sitting at dinner nodding our heads and laughing. I remember Carter and I waiting hours on Christmas Day to open our presents because Lee was bustling around doing other things. Being on time... moreJan, what an honest and heartfelt comment! Carolyn and I are sitting at dinner nodding our heads and laughing. I remember Carter and I waiting hours on Christmas Day to open our presents because Lee was bustling around doing other things. Being on time was definitely not one of her strengths!
Here are some pictures of my beloved Aunt Bobbie. My family and I are going to cousin Glenna's home today to be with her family for the memorial service. We are looking forward to seeing you all and celebrating the wonderful life she lived.
Below are the lyrics to a beautiful song written by a dear friend, Helga. Helga performed this piece at Don’s funeral service years ago and it has so much meaning for us. Helga’s song “Remember Me” will also be featured in a very special portion... moreBelow are the lyrics to a beautiful song written by a dear friend, Helga. Helga performed this piece at Don’s funeral service years ago and it has so much meaning for us. Helga’s song “Remember Me” will also be featured in a very special portion of the virtual service this afternoon. Lee loved music and having music in her memorial performed by some of her wonderful friends seemed like such a fitting way to honor her memory. ❤️
Remember Me
Words & Music by Helga Kaefer
I’m waiting Lord
As I pour out my heart to You
The pain is deep
On my knees I tremble
I can hardly speak
I want to believe that you see
Want to believe you hear me
CHORUS
Remember me Lord
When you look down on the earth
When you search the land and sea
Remember me
Remember me Lord
I need to hear from You
My heart aches and my body’s weak
So please
Remember me.
I know you’re faithful
You keep all of your promises
You’re a God of truth
As my tears touch the ground
I bow to you
I want to believe that you know
Want to believe you won’t let me go
REPEAT CHORUS
There’ a yellow ribbon tied around my heart
Lord I’m asking you for mercy
Dear Lee was The Parkinson's Group connection to the church hall. For years she arrived on monthly Saturdays with the keys and her famous shortbread. She was such a kind and caring supporter of our families as we gathered for helpful presentations on... moreDear Lee was The Parkinson's Group connection to the church hall. For years she arrived on monthly Saturdays with the keys and her famous shortbread. She was such a kind and caring supporter of our families as we gathered for helpful presentations on coping with Parkinson's. Her sincere encouragement welcomed us. Her tasty treats delighted us all. God bless you with the joys of eternal life, dear Lee. We thank you for your years of dedication. less
Sharing some photos from Lee’s interment ceremony yesterday. Her ashes were wrapped in the New York Times and she was buried with tea leaves and chocolate (she is ready for the “tea and sweets toast” at todays virtual memorial!). Bobbie, Bob, and... moreSharing some photos from Lee’s interment ceremony yesterday. Her ashes were wrapped in the New York Times and she was buried with tea leaves and chocolate (she is ready for the “tea and sweets toast” at todays virtual memorial!). Bobbie, Bob, and Liz also planted flowers on her interment site. All the things Lee loved. ❤️ It was a beautiful day and a beautiful ceremony. less
The Women’s Club of Haworth will always miss Lee Benjamin. She was a important member of our community. We will never forget her concerns for the problems of the world and her many charitable donations to these causes. Thank you, Lee, for everything... moreThe Women’s Club of Haworth will always miss Lee Benjamin. She was a important member of our community. We will never forget her concerns for the problems of the world and her many charitable donations to these causes. Thank you, Lee, for everything you have done for the club and the community. less
When we first moved into the house next door to Lee’s, at 10 PM she came over with the world’s best chocolate chip cookies. Since then, we began our amazing friendship. She introduced me to many of her friends and because of her I joined the... moreWhen we first moved into the house next door to Lee’s, at 10 PM she came over with the world’s best chocolate chip cookies. Since then, we began our amazing friendship. She introduced me to many of her friends and because of her I joined the Women’s Club of Haworth. She was the best neighbor and the best friend I could ever ask for. I have lots and lots of great memories with Lee. less
I first heard the name Lee Benjamin when I went to her church Christmas craft fair. I was told you must try her shortbread. Of course, it was wonderful. Years later, Lee did a demonstration of her shortbread and kolacky for our Woman's Club of Haworth... moreI first heard the name Lee Benjamin when I went to her church Christmas craft fair. I was told you must try her shortbread. Of course, it was wonderful. Years later, Lee did a demonstration of her shortbread and kolacky for our Woman's Club of Haworth gourmet group. I treasure her handwritten recipes. Lee was so much more than her wonderful cooking. She was a true volunteer and club member for over forty years. Lee stepped up and became President when we needed one. She would host every department and lead our International Affairs Department. She fed our stomachs and opened our minds to the world. Lee will forever be in our hearts.
Barbara Farina
The Woman's Club of Haworth less
Remembering Lee…
“How are you keeping?” were Lee’s famous words asking over and over again with everyone she met. This woman’s lifelong purpose seemed to be the caring and feeding of others at all times. I met Lee and husband Don in November,... moreRemembering Lee…
“How are you keeping?” were Lee’s famous words asking over and over again with everyone she met. This woman’s lifelong purpose seemed to be the caring and feeding of others at all times. I met Lee and husband Don in November, 1998 when I had returned to my hometown church after an absence of about 35 years. I met Don first who almost immediately ushered me to the church kitchen (where else?) to meet Lee. That was the beginning of a love affair with this remarkable, always fascinating, perpetually in motion, vibrant woman for the next 25 years. Whether in church, their home, or out to a restaurant, fellowship and food seemed to be the heart beat of Lee. I quickly began calling her “Our Lady of Perpetual Responsibility” referenced from Garrison Keiller’s A Prairie Home Commpanion on NPR. Lee took on the world so to speak, volunteering everywhere she could to spread her love and caring for others. I will miss you, dear, sweet Lee, for you were an inspiration and a presence never to be forgotten.
With love,
Jen less
My introduction to Mrs Benjamin what through Mike who I got to know through cycling probably over 30 years ago. So many memories but some that are still so vivid:
- "mom and dad" attending one of Mikes' bike races and being so concerned.... moreMy introduction to Mrs Benjamin what through Mike who I got to know through cycling probably over 30 years ago. So many memories but some that are still so vivid:
- "mom and dad" attending one of Mikes' bike races and being so concerned. (Somerville)
- Being at the Benjamin's home in Haworth and always being offered those great lemon bars
- Listening to the conversations of Mr and Mrs Benjamin as they has some different views :-).
- Asking my family to join them for dinners at White Beaches.
- Always enjoying "finding" a new item in their home and hearing its origin and story.
It was not easy for Mrs Benjamin when she finally moved out of the Haworth home. She was so generous as she gave us several of the items from her home which we have and will continue to treasure: a hand-made ark with "all" the animals which our son Lukas played with every time we visited, a beautiful set of little chairs and table and 2 small runners that have graced our home now for several years.
I had the pleasure of visiting her a number of times once she moved into the home and I enjoyed every moment, her spunk never waned, the New York Times always on the table and always a stimulating conversation.
Lee Benjamin, thank you for allowing my family and I to get to you know and leaving us with amazing memories. less
Our mother Lila, was the baby sister in the family. Those three girls were so close. We call her Aunt Bobbie because that is what our mother and her family called her growing up. Love all my precious memories of her.
David (Reeder) King here. Here are some photos of Aunt Bobbie / Lee. I will share a broader set with Michael and anyone else who'd appreciate via Google Photos.
Aunt Lee was always busy doing something for someone else. She would bustle around wanting to do more and give you more, even when you said you had enough. Her heart was full of giving and she was never satisfied that she had done or given enough. She... moreAunt Lee was always busy doing something for someone else. She would bustle around wanting to do more and give you more, even when you said you had enough. Her heart was full of giving and she was never satisfied that she had done or given enough. She would always honestly share her thoughts and feelings - and rarely could be swayed if she knew she was right. We undoubtedly have similar personalities - so I understood her and loved her dearly! Jack & Chris Benjamin's youngest, Libby less