We created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Connie H. Baker. Collecting your stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. As we plan virtual gatherings, we will post invites. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial.
OBITUARY
One day when we were living in Minnesota, my brother Walt said, "I have someone I want you to meet". He said, "She is very special" and that certainly was a true statement. I fell in love with Walt's friend, Connie, the minute I met her. She became the sister I never had. She was there for me during high school, college and even during our teaching careers. She was always available to listen and to offer sisterly advice. What a joyous... see moreOne day when we were living in Minnesota, my brother Walt said, "I have someone I want you to meet". He said, "She is very special" and that certainly was a true statement. I fell in love with Walt's friend, Connie, the minute I met her. She became the sister I never had. She was there for me during high school, college and even during our teaching careers. She was always available to listen and to offer sisterly advice. What a joyous day it was when Walt and Connie got married.
Connie continued to be there for me throughout our lives. She would appear out of nowhere when mom had to be hospitalized or was in an Emergency Room. We would sit and hold each other hands as we waited for news about mom. I could always count on her being there as could mom. Mom appreciated Connie's support and weekly visits on Sundays. After arriving, Connie would say to me, "Go run an errand or just take a ride and have some me time." What a compassionate person she was. Not only did she give me some free time but she had some one on one time with mom.
Her hugs were probably the best hugs anyone could receive.They were truly an embrace of love.
Before Connie passed, the doctor asked her if she knew who I was. Connie replied with a smile "Sister". I held my dear sister's hand as she was transitioning, and I prayed for her. I also thanked her for her love and support, but most importantly, I thank her for being the best sister ever.
John Irving once said, "When someone you love dies, and you're not expecting it, you don't lose her all at once; you lose her in pieces over a long time." I am finding this to be true. Rest in peace my dear sister. We will see each other again. I love and respect you. Di