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January 16th, 2021, the world lost the light of a beautiful angel on Earth. Barbara Kay O'Diorne(formerly Davis), passed peacefully, in her home, surrounded by those she loved, after a brief battle with stage four small cell lung cancer and covid-19. Barbara was a strong, loving, capable woman, who will be missed by everyone whose life she ever touched. She leaves behind her husband, James Michael O'Diorne, children Thomas Henry,... see moreJanuary 16th, 2021, the world lost the light of a beautiful angel on Earth. Barbara Kay O'Diorne(formerly Davis), passed peacefully, in her home, surrounded by those she loved, after a brief battle with stage four small cell lung cancer and covid-19. Barbara was a strong, loving, capable woman, who will be missed by everyone whose life she ever touched. She leaves behind her husband, James Michael O'Diorne, children Thomas Henry, Shelby Rickert, Noelle Henry, and Samuel Henry. She is also survived by her mother, two sisters, and brother. No in person service will be held, but all are invited to share here together.
In remembrance of Barbie, I want to share a couple of my fondest memories with her. Let me first say, Barbie was basically my second mom. All through my younger years, she was with me. Learning to drive, first boyfriends, all the major milestones, I spent with her.
So, let's talk about learning to drive. Barbie drove a blue Ford Escort wagon back when I was learning to drive, and we basically went everywhere in it together. Every Sunday, we'd get up, leave the house, and take an hour long drive to the site of the our new homes that were being prepped. We talked about everything under the sun while she guided me through what to do, and what not do(often after having done exactly what I wasn't supposed to!). Anything that lingered on my mind from the week before, I could share with her, and I knew it stayed with her. Every week, without fail, we would stop by somewhere like Bojangles on the way back home, and have a fast food meal together, just the two of us. As I prepare to teach my kids to drive, I hope I carry forward the calm and love she gave me while teaching me.
On a funnier note here though, Barbie once did not handle scary very well. I give her all credit for overcoming it, because once upon a time, not so long ago, she was so distressed by an R.L. Stine book, that she threw it down the stairs! One afternoon, I heard her scream "JENNI...IF YOU DON'T COME GET THIS BOOK, I'M NOT COMING DOWNSTAIRS AGAIN!", and then you heard the book hit the wall at the bottom of the stairs. I walked out to see what was going on, and heard the door slammed and the lock engaged. Poking my head around the corner, I saw a book she had asked to read of mine, a Fear Street series book about undead cheerleaders. Remember, this book was aimed at 13 or 14 year olds, so you can imagine how much fun we had teasing her about it after. I picked up the book, jokingly yelled that she was safe, and went on about my day. I never forgot though, and neither did she. Shelby and I have the best video of her from Christmas 2019, where poor Shelby had that same book hurled at her, all bc I chose to prank Barbie and send her another copy. It is hands down, one of the funniest memories I got to share with Barbie.
There are so many memories I have with Barbie, and not nearly space or time to includes them all here. I hope you'll all share your memories with us, pictures, and thoughts. Thank you for celebrating the all too short life of this magnificent woman who was mom, best friend, and loved family member to so many.
In lieu of flowers, we ask that you consider donating to the gofundme set up to cover the cost of cremation. All proceeds beyond those costs go directly to her eldest daughter in order to care for the beautiful children left behind.
Barbie.... this ain't real.... how could this happen to the most bad ass woman I know? You have given me some of my most favorite memories... you can rest now my friend, we will take it from here. I am sorry we lost touch, but I am forever grateful that... moreBarbie.... this ain't real.... how could this happen to the most bad ass woman I know? You have given me some of my most favorite memories... you can rest now my friend, we will take it from here. I am sorry we lost touch, but I am forever grateful that our girls are still a part of each other's lives. I have so many memories... how do I pick one??? Probably one of my favorites is the time Carol tried to kill us at the mall 😬🤣🤣🤣... or the time at Pa and Joan's when Kim superglue the lid on Paul's Pepsi... all I know is we are lucky to have you up there watching over us!! Love you Barbie less
Barbie was an awesome big sister. She always use to let me hang out with her and her friends ( even if she really didn’t want to). I have tons of memories with her but my favorite is June 2020 hanging out at the beach together. One moment especially... moreBarbie was an awesome big sister. She always use to let me hang out with her and her friends ( even if she really didn’t want to). I have tons of memories with her but my favorite is June 2020 hanging out at the beach together. One moment especially comes to mind when we were the last 2 up and we sat out on the deck talking for hours . We laughed and joked like we always do in my family and talked of more serious things like our dad and his health. We shared the same fears of losing him. I’ll always remember that and be forever grateful for that memory.
I’ll always remember playing cards at mom and dads with our cousin Kim when we were teenagers and all the laughing that we did. Eating junk food and giving each other a hard time over who was winning and who was cheating. All the holidays together, kids birthday parties and her coming to my house to spend the weekend with me. We had so much fun and stayed up half the night talking and laughing .
I miss her so much and don’t know how we are going to live without her. less