I met Nesrin, when I was 20. I remember thinking that her bright blue eyes were stunningly beautiful. They were truly the windows to her soul. She was the kindest, most compassionate person I have ever met. I was one of her many close friends. She is one of my dearest. Nessie was easy to love, and a member of my family.
There were 5 of us, growing up together. We spent quality years together laughing, dancing, crying, hugging, and having an ABSOLUTE blast. Nessie could remember my past better than me and I will dearly miss her recollection of the old days and all the memories she could share with us girls. I already deeply miss my hours and hours of talking with her and relying on her input and opinions.
I am 55 now and I have no idea how to go on without her. I am in shock and disbelief. I am sure that all of us girls feel the same and realize what an important part she has played in our lives. We will always carry a deep spot in our hearts that no one else will ever be able to fill.
To the family:
Sevgi: Nessie admired you and would talk about how "beautiful" you were. She used to tell me about your strong work ethic, your love for your children and husband, and your internal strength. She always felt supported by you and deeply loved. Your gift to her was teaching her to have a kind and beautiful heart.
Eerol: Nessie adored her 'little brother' and was so proud of the strong and beautiful man you have become. She would tell me stories about you as a child and how cute you were. Your gift to her was the insight that there are good men in the world. She knew you always had her back.
Serap: The bond she had with you ran deep. She respected your advice and shared in your love of the arts. She used to tell me all the time how grateful she was to have you as a sister. You helped her up when she was down and were always referred to as a 'sweet' and 'giving' person. Your gift to her was strength and perseverance. You had a great way of lifting her up.
She couldn't say enough about her family and she couldn't say enough about her friends. She overlooked a lot of our faults and accepted us with a pure heart.
I can not put into words the enormous and everlasting loss this will be for all of the lucky people who got to be a part of this beautiful lady's life.....her gift to us.